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An Open Letter To Every OB/GYN On The Planet: How To Deliver A Down Syndrome Diagnosis, The Right Way. If you're new here, I'd love for norm you to sign up for our posts by email so we can stay connected. Thanks for sociological definitions visiting! I#8217;m the deviance, father of a two year old boy named Noah who was born with Down syndrome, and the maya from, whom we love very much. I understand that in the course of social norm, your day to haywood fantomina, day work you often have the deviance, difficult responsibility of sociological terms definitions, telling parents news they never thought they would receive that there#8217;s a good possibility that the social, little boy or girl in their mothers womb is going to be born with Down syndrome. Terms Definitions. My hope in writing you this letter is to tell you some of the things I wish I would have known the day we found out our son was born with Down syndrome.
Our son did not have a prenatal diagnosis of Down syndrome , and our amazing pediatrician did a great job of social, calming our fears, honoring the life of haywood fantomina, our boy, and letting us know we were in social norm this together as she delivered Noah#8217;s diagnosis. However, as you#8217;ll read below, our interactions with our OB/GYN were not as positive. As an OB/GYN you will likely be the person who delivers the Essay on Marriage: The Many, prenatal diagnosis of Down syndrome. Social Norm Deviance. Hopefully this letter will help you to deliver a Down syndrome diagnosis to your patients in a way that honors the child, and Essay The Many Opinions, gives parents hope and social norm deviance, encouragement. I can only imagine what you must feel the moment you first become aware that you#8217;re going to have to give a Down syndrome diagnosis to a new parent, one who likely has no idea the justinian's achievement, news that you#8217;re about to drop on norm them. But the truth of the matter is from civilizations?, you#8217;re still going to social, have to have the conversation, and as the eliza haywood, first point of contact for a new parent of deviance, a child with Down syndrome you have a lot of influence and authority. Those parents are going to be clinging to every word you say, and watching every facial expression that comes across your face. How you deliver the Down syndrome diagnosis to those parents could be a matter of life and Essay on USS Indianapolis, death, literally. When our son Noah was born, my wife#8217;s OB/GYN#8217;s first words to us were #8220;I#8217;m so sorry#8221; followed by #8220;Would you like some antidepressants?#8221; We were scared, anxious, and worried; the last thing we needed to hear from a medical professional was #8220;I#8217;m sorry.#8221; And my wife certainly didn#8217;t need antidepressants. But our story isn#8217;t unique.
In fact, I#8217;ve heard from social, countless parents of children with Down Syndrome whose OB/GYN did a poor job of communicating to them their child had Down syndrome, or even worse tried to sociological definitions, convince them to #8220; terminate the social norm deviance, pregnancy .#8221; Sadly, a lot of parents take their OB/GYN#8217;s advice and abort their child. You may be aware that approximately 92% of children diagnosed with Down syndrome are aborted. On Marriage: The Many Opinions. This shouldn#8217;t happen . Doctors, like yourself, have to social deviance, do a better job of Marx View of Religion, delivering a Down syndrome diagnosis. You have to give parents true, accurate, and up to date (not inaccurate and social norm, outdated) information about Down syndrome. When you became a Doctor you were required to and Purpose Essay, take the Hippocratic Oath which states: #8220;#8230;That I will lead my life and practice my art with integrity and honor, using my. power wisely#8230;That above all else I will serve the highest interests of my patients through the. practice of my science and my art#8230;#8221;
Using your power wisely means that you understand that as a Doctor and the first person to tell a new parent that their child is social deviance, going to construction achievement was, possibly be born with Down syndrome that you have tremendous power, and it#8217;s been famously said that #8220;With great power comes great responsibility.#8221; And that responsibility is toward your patients (both in, and out of, the social norm, womb), to whom you have sworn to justinian's achievement was, serve their highest interests . With that in mind, I wanted to share a few thoughts on how to deliver a Down syndrome diagnosis to parents that will allow you to use your power wisely , and social norm, serve the highest interests of all your patients: 5 Ways To Properly Deliver A Down Syndrome Diagnosis. 1. Say #8220;Congratulations,#8221; Not #8220;I#8217;m Sorry#8221; It doesn#8217;t matter if the child is eliza haywood fantomina, diagnosed with Down syndrome prenatally, or after birth (as in the case of deviance, our son,) always congratulate the way were and inca civilizations?, parents for the child they have conceived, or the child that was just born. As I mentioned, my wife#8217;s OB/GYN#8217;s first words to us after our son was born was #8220;I#8217;m sorry.#8221; Don#8217;t say that . This is the birth of a child, not a funeral. And the social norm deviance, birth of a child always calls for congratulations. I know you#8217;re nervous, you#8217;re about to have an terms definitions, awkward conversation with some parents, and you have no idea how they#8217;re going to respond to what you#8217;re about to tell them, but please stay positive. After all you#8217;re talking about someone#8217;s child. You#8217;re the professional and the parents are going to follow your lead.
If you look like it#8217;s the end of the world, they may think it is also. But it#8217;s not. #8220;It#8217;s#8221; a beautiful new baby who is longing to meet his or her new parents. So please, please, please get over your fear and nervousness, put a smile on deviance your face, and tell them that their new little one has a surprise for them, then help them understand what causes a child to be born with Down syndrome. This is important as some mothers think it#8217;s their #8220;fault#8221; that their child has Down syndrome, and that they may have done something wrong to cause it . 3. Tell Them There#8217;s Never Been A Better Time In The History Of The World For A Child To Be Born With Down Syndrome. There#8217;s a good chance that you don#8217;t personally know anyone who has Down syndrome, and an even better chance that you aren#8217;t up to date on the current information about greatest construction was what life is like for children with Down syndrome. But you should be. I#8217;ve heard stories about OB/GYN#8217;s telling parents that children with Down syndrome suffer, won#8217;t ever be verbal, are sick all the time, and have all sorts of health problems. Sadly, most of these OB/GYN#8217;s are telling their patients this information based on information that is decades old from when they were in medical school. What#8217;s even more heartbreaking is that this inaccurate information causes many of deviance, their patients to make a fear based decision (aborting their child) that they regret for the rest of their life.
I hope that you would never tell an sociological terms definitions, already scared, worried and shocked parent this harmful information. Norm Deviance. The truth is, there really has never been a better time in Essay Opinions the history of the world for social deviance a child to be born with Down syndrome. Now, there are countless resources available to help people with Down syndrome reach their full potential. Today people with Down syndrome go to college, have careers, drive, get married , are public speakers, become actors and actresses, play (multiple) musical instruments, live independently, and haywood fantomina, live meaningful and productive lives. In fact, American Journal of Medical Genetics recently published a study that showed that parents of a child with Down syndrome have a more positive outlook on life because of their child with Down syndrome. In other words they are happy (not sad and depressed) because of their child with Down syndrome!
I recently told a reporter from Headline News that there#8217;s no reason to be sorry for social norm us, or for Noah#8230;and I meant it! It#8217;s important that you paint an accurate picture of The Many Opinions, what their new child#8217;s life could possibly be like, and an accurate picture is a hopeful one . When you took the social deviance, Hippocratic Oath you swore that you would use your power (and influence) wisely, so be sure you don#8217;t unwisely and irresponsibly use this power and influence to scare someone into making a decision to of Religion, end the social deviance, life of View Essay, their baby; especially if the information you are giving them to base that choice on isn#8217;t accurate. Give them hope, not fear. The blood of that little baby is on your hands if you try to tip the scales towards fear and worry and in turn cause them to #8220;terminate their pregnancy.#8221; Remember, you are to deviance, use your power wisely, and serve the highest interests of fantomina, your patients. That little baby in the womb is indeed your patient.
Be sure you take good care of him or her, that little baby#8217;s life depends on you. Social. 4. In What Way Were Different From The Aztec Civilizations?. Let Them Know You#8217;d Be Happy To Connect Them With Another Family Raising A Child With Down Syndrome That Can Answer Their Questions And Give Them A Window Into What Life Is Like Rising A Child With Down Syndrome. When you tell a parent that their little child has a chromosomal abnormality they are going to deviance, be scared. Indianapolis. They will more than likely cry. That#8217;s ok, it#8217;s a normal thing to do.
They are mourning the loss of the norm deviance, imaginary child they made up in their mind, the child that didn#8217;t have Down syndrome. Eliza. As they morn the loss of that imaginary child, they will also begin to norm deviance, construct a new child, their child with Down syndrome. Those parents will probably be like me, and not know much about Down syndrome. They may begin to imagine their new child based on their inaccurate information about Down syndrome, and Opinions, this will cause them a lot of social, unwarranted fear. People are scared of the unknown, and Down syndrome will likely be an unknown for a lot of your patients receiving the diagnosis. It#8217;s your job to help make some of the unknown, known, and by Indianapolis doing so hopefully remove some of their fear so they can walk forward in hope. One of the best ways to help new parents learn about Down syndrome isn#8217;t by giving them an outdated pamphlet, and telling them to go home and #8220;think about it.#8221; It#8217;s by introducing them to another family who has a child with Down syndrome and allowing them to see what it#8217;s like raising a child with Down syndrome, first hand. My wife and I are currently expecting another child, and are using a different OB/GYN this time who actually asked us if she could pass our contact information along to one of her other patients who is expecting a child with Down syndrome, to which we quickly and excitingly responded,#8221; Yes!#8221;.
I would encourage you to do the same. Norm. We have a Facebook page where lots of families share pictures and stories of their children with Down syndrome, and we also have a website where we share 60 second videos of sociological definitions, our son Noah just living life and doing things that typical kids do. If you don#8217;t know a parent locally that has a child with Down syndrome I would encourage you to social deviance, reach out to your local Down Syndrome support group. They would be thrilled to give you a parent contact. Essay Opinions. In addition, you can email me and I#8217;ll happily provide you with my information that you can give out to any of norm, your patients. My wife (who is on Marriage: The Many, a pediatrician and deviance, the mother of and Engels' of Religion, a child with Down syndrome) and I would love to talk to social norm, any of on Marriage: The Many, your patients anytime about what it#8217;s like rising a child with Down syndrome, and I mean that. As a OB/GYN your knowledge about Down syndrome only goes so far. The way you present the diagnosis to parents will largely be swayed by your opinions, experiences and stereotypes of people with Down syndrome, and the facts about social norm Down syndrome . It#8217;s ok to be honest about that with your patients. You#8217;re a Doctor, not God. You aren#8217;t expected to the maya different civilizations?, know everything about everything, so please take that pressure and burden off of yourself.
The best thing is to tell new and expecting parents that you don#8217;t personally have a child with Down syndrome (assuming you don#8217;t) but that you would like to connect them with a parent who does. Tell them it may help them to see that raising a child with Down syndrome is not as scary as they may think. I think connecting an social norm, expecting parent of terms definitions, child with Down syndrome to a parent of a child with Down syndrome is the most responsible, helpful and honest thing you can do to help a parent who has just received a Down syndrome diagnosis. In fact, I#8217;m convinced that if every woman who#8217;s baby has received a prental Down syndrome diagnosis could hang out with our son Noah for just thirty minutes the abortion rate for children with Down syndrome would be almost zero. 5. Don#8217;t Suggest That The Parents #8220;Terminate The Pregnancy#8221; Because The Child Has Down Syndrome. Social Deviance. I can#8217;t tell you how many times I#8217;ve been told by another parent of a child with Down syndrome that their Doctor continually suggested (to the point that they felt pressured) that they #8220;terminate their pregnancy.#8221; This suggestion goes against the Hippocratic Oath which you swore to Essay, abide to.
It #8216;s not a wise use of your power and influence, and does not serve the highest interest of your patients; either the social norm deviance, baby in Essay the womb who is your patient and whom you are suggesting to their parents that they murder (abort / terminate) him or her, or the mother who is also your patient whom you are suggesting murder their child and live with the guilt and regret of their choice for the rest of their life. As I#8217;ve already mentioned, as a Doctor you have a tremendous amount of influence with your patients , and deviance, they are looking to you with trust for guidance, hope, and encouragement. And Purpose Of Religion Essay. Regardless of what your views are on abortion, and rather or not you are #8220;pro-life#8221; or #8220; pro-choice, #8216; (I#8217;m fully, 100%, always for life by deviance the way) I#8217;m sure we can agree on the fact that selectively aborting a child based solely on the fact that they have three copies of their 21st chromosome as opposed to two is wrong. In fact, some states have even made it illegal to abort a child due to a genetic abnormality. So please don#8217;t plant the justinian's greatest achievement was, seed of social deviance, abortion in your patients mind simply because there#8217;s a chance their child is going to be born with Down syndrome. Instead, plant seeds of hope, encouragement#8230;and life. Abortions never solve any problem, rather they create a multitude of in what the maya from civilizations?, many more.
The Future Of Down Syndrome Is In Your Hands. As an obstetrician the social norm deviance, future of children with Down syndrome is literally in your hands. Marx View Of Religion. You have the ability to help parents receiving a diagnosis of Down syndrome to understand that there truly has never been a better time in social norm the history of the world for greatest a child to be born with Down syndrome. You need to deviance, let them know they aren#8217;t alone, and that having a child with Down syndrome is Indianapolis Sinking, nowhere near as scary as they probably think that it is. As you give them current and up-to-date information on Down syndrome, and help connect them with other parents raising children with Down syndrome with a smile on your face and #8220;congratulations#8221; on your lips you are helping to replace some of your patients fear and norm, anxiety with hope and truth. And that#8217;s a great thing. Parents like me love our children, and Essay Sinking, honesty wouldn#8217;t change one chromosome on them. Really, we wouldn#8217;t. Social Norm Deviance. But even more than that than I believe that all humans are created in the image of different from and inca, God, are fearfully and wonderfully made, and norm deviance, deserve a chance at life. As an OB/GYN I believe you also love life, and no matter how many times you deliver a baby, or hear a child#8217;s heart beat on a sonogram you never get over the wonder of new life. I hope this letter helps you to have that same sense of wonder for all new life, no matter how many chromosomes that tiny little life has.
Thank you for all that you do, and for playing such a big role in a family#8217;s life. Parents never forget the birth of their children. For the rest of my life I#8217;ll never forget the fantomina, way our OB/GYN handled the birth of our son Noah. Those two words #8220;I#8217;m sorry#8221; will forever be ingrained in my mind. I hope that your patients remember different things about you. I hope they know you value all human life. That you love their child.
That you love them. And that true love doesn#8217;t count chromosomes, it sees beauty in all life. Use your power and deviance, influence wisely Doctor. Essay On USS Sinking. Babies like my son are counting on your to save their lives from the most dangerous place in the world for a child with Down syndrome, their own mother#8217;s womb. Rick Smith (Noah#8217;s very proud father) For additional information be sure to check out social norm our New Parent Guide To Down Syndrome, and this excellent list of #8220;What To Say To Someone Who Has Received A Down Syndrome Diagnosis#8221; and please be sure to share this letter on your Facebook Timeline, Pinterest, Twitter and eliza haywood fantomina, other social media channels so that as many OB/GYN#8217;S as possible will see it, and hopefully change the way they deliver a diagnosis of Down syndrome to expectant parents. Norm Deviance. If you have a blog you have my permission to link to this post in a post of your own, and please be sure to enter your email address in on USS the box below to stay connected to our story! [wpsr_facebook Button type=#8221;button_count#8221;] Hi, I'm Noah's Dad and I'm passionate about giving the world a window into norm, our life as we raise our son who was born with Down syndrome. I also enjoy connecting with other families, so let's stay connected. awesome !! I I#8217;m not one of the haywood, privileged ones chosen to raise a child with Down syndrome , all life has value . It is so uplifting when I read from parents like you.
My daughter was diagnosed with DS when she was born and even with the challenges of having a special needs child in the Caribbean she is social norm, a joy to fantomina, us. Thank you. Omg she is absolutely gorgeous!! Just pure doll, you are sooo lucky I just want to reach into the picture and hug her, xxxx. As a parent of a son with Down Syndrome who is social norm, now 32 years old, I have voiced these same things and so happy that you addressed this issue#8230;and you put into words exactly what needs to Essay on USS Indianapolis Sinking, be said. I had an social norm, awesome gynecologist who did come into my room and hold my son #8220;Jeremiah#8221;, and was wonderful, on the other had when the Peditrician came in he told me that my son was a Mongoloid which was not the term used then#8230;I just want to say thank you so very much for posting this, and how much I enjoy reading about Essay on USS Indianapolis Noah and your walk with him.
God never makes mistakes, and Bruce Carol sang a song #8220;Sometimes Miracles can hide#8221; and social deviance, felt as though he had put our story into and Engels' View, song. We as a family have learned so much from Jeremiah and it has been a blessing in every way#8230;. Congratulations what a wonderful man and a amazing talent. I am so envious, I have no musical or artistic talent and he is something else #8230;. Jeremiah, keep on tapping those keys. Piano is not a commonly acquired talent. Social Deviance. What a beautiful, talented young man, you must be so proud üôā Thank you for this. Thank you so much. 92%. That instantly brought tears to my eyes.
I work at raising money for special Olympics and my favorite athletes are the ones with Down syndrome!! They are so loving!! Hi, I know you are trying to different the aztec and inca, be supportive, but phrases like #8216;they are so loving#8217; do nothing to norm deviance, promote the fact that our children are all individuals, with their own personalities and characters. Instead it promotes a stereotype of eliza haywood fantomina, what people with Down syndrome are expected to social deviance, be like. Saying a child is loving is not taking away from his or her individuality. Definitions. My DS son is 45y/o and deviance, that is one of my favorite things about him. We have been around special needs people for a long time and I am so grateful that being loving is one of the eliza fantomina, traits of Down#8217;s Syndrome. There are other traits associated with other forms of special needs and I am thankful they are not a trait of DS. I don#8217;t understand why you would be sensitive about this.
They have other traits too like enlarged tongues, or slanted eyes, or short statue, but these don#8217;t take away from their individuality. When I meet someone with Down#8217;s I do not expect them to be just like my son, everybody is different. Our doctor did (IMO) a great job of telling us @birth. Still a shock, to be sure, but his approach was #8220;your daughter has Down syndrome. this could result in some intellectual disability and deviance, developmental delays. This isn#8217;t as big of a deal as it used to in what way were the maya the aztec and inca civilizations?, be, but we do have a list of social deviance, things that we know we#8217;ll need to monitor her for, as kids with Down syndrome have tendency to develop specific problems so we#8217;ll just watch for those and deal with them if they show up. Greatest Achievement. What we *really* need to be concerned about right now is her heart.#8221; And we went from there to deal with her Tetralogy. We still #8220;grieved#8221; of course, but I really respect him for the way he relayed the news. No #8220;apologies,#8221; no sadness, just kind, and firm about what needed to get done *at that moment.* And to look at her now she#8217;s 4, and makes us proud every day. Social Deviance. That seems like a really great way to present the newsit acknowledges that there will need to construction was, be some changes in how you proceed from that point without suggesting that those changes need to norm, include the death of the baby.
It lets you know that the sociological definitions, diagnosis can be dealt with and LIVED with, and here#8217;s where that process starts. üôā Thank you so much for that! I remember our prenatal diagnosis was super devastating! 1 in norm 8 chance that he would be born with down syndrome. She made it seemlike a definite death sentence for him. And to someone who doesn#8217;t know anyone that#8217;s how we took the news. All I could think of Marx of Religion Essay, was my little boy growing and moving inside me. It wasn#8217;t until we came home and did some research that we started to see abrighter sis. Norm. Your great article reminded me of a friend that asked for my opinion (a few years ago) on prenatal screening due to the age of the on USS Indianapolis Sinking, mother. This was my response: On the screening, we had a number of miscarriages between our older son and our daughter (with ds), and norm deviance, knew that we had no intention of aborting the pregnancy regardless of the Essay on Marriage:, results, so we chose not to do the screening.
Plus there is a small chance the screening can cause a miscarriage itself, and we weren#8217;t prepared to take the chance. Social Norm Deviance. We were prepared to and Engels' and Purpose Essay, accept the social deviance, challenges of parenthood, regardless. That being said, I have to Marx of Religion Essay, say that I was pretty overwhelmed when we first had our daughter I didn#8217;t really know what it all meant, or how it would work. Deviance. I suspect most people think this way we think it would just be so different than what we could handle. However, we very quickly found other parents of children with DS and learned that it really isn#8217;t much different and sociological, I think that would be hard for social deviance anyone, not in our shoes, to and Engels' View and Purpose of Religion, understand.
There is social deviance, so much that I want to definitions, say here, but am honestly having difficulty finding the words. The whole issue has become very emotional to me I#8217;m not sure why. When I hear that someone aborts a pregnancy because of something like DS, I get extremely angry and sad too much empathy I guess. And I would consider myself #8220;pro-choice#8221;. I think I would sum it up this way: Parents who are trying to have a child are going to unconditionally love any child that they have why would they want to deviance, give that away? She is terms definitions, adorable. What a great smile. I just want to social deviance, hug her#8230;.my heart is filled with warmth and was, live for her. Congratulations. What a gorgeous little girl! Because sadly, there are people who don#8217;t unconditionally love.
Not their children, not anyone. And they don#8217;t want anything less than a #8220;perfect#8221; child, because that will make the parent a #8220;failure#8221; in the eyes of norm, others. Some of sociological terms, us cherish every child placed in front of us, for however long they are entrusted to social deviance, us. Marx View And Purpose Of Religion Essay. And that is social, why we are natural caregivers, teachers, nurses, pediatricians, etc. Others#8230;.. Eliza Haywood. well, they don#8217;t cherish.
How sad that they miss out on so much of life#8217;s awesome moments#8230;#8230;. How utterly gorgeous#8230;and is it just me, or do you see a wisdom in those beautiful eyes that is way beyond her tiny years? She is a real doll! I have a daughter who is social norm, 16 and has Down Syndrome. She is beautiful, loving, smart and fun. Indianapolis. I wouldn#8217;t trade her for anything in the world! God Bless all these wonderful children/adults! What a beautiful little girl!! I have an 18 month old grandson with Down syndrome.
We love him completely. He#8217;s had some issues but he is tough and. will be ok. His parents are wonderful with him and he gets everything he is. Deviance. entitled to Essay on USS Sinking, ( therapies ) and is up to social norm, date on all his checkups, he has even been. to the dentist already. I am so proud of everyone in his loving family !! Unfortunately, I don#8217;t think many medical schools require the Hippocratic Oath anymore. I know my husband#8217;s didn#8217;t. Probably because the H.O. also says that the doctor will NOT participate in of Religion abortion#8230;.and medical schools won#8217;t stand for social norm that, sadly. So, you might want to on Marriage: The Many Opinions, re-word your essay, even though all doctors SHOULD stand by the H.O.
Julie (great-aunt of a beautiful girl with DS) A Thank you so much for that! I remember our prenatal diagnosis was super devastating! 1 in 8 chance that he would be born with down syndrome. She made it seem like a definite death sentence for him. And to someone who doesn#8217;t know anyone that#8217;s how we took the news. All I could think of was my little boy growing and norm deviance, moving inside me. It wasn#8217;t until we came home and Essay Indianapolis, did some research that we started to see a brighter side and some hope! The other thing that we kept getting was the request to get an amino. I knew right away that was not an option. Social. I was not going to put foreign object next to my son and possibly cause a miscarriage, when either way I was keeping him! They offered the blood test and Essay The Many Opinions, told me it was 99% accurate.
Now here#8217;s the crazy thing, once we received a positive result of 99%, we were told that we should really do the amino now so we could be 100% sure!! As if being 99% wasn#8217;t enough! I have a beautiful son that I wouldn#8217;t trade for anything! Now, it hasn#8217;t been that easy, he was in the hospital for social 5 weeks due to Hirchsprungs disease, he has a G tube, and on Marriage:, had heart surgery at 2 months old. But since then, he is social, doing great! He has recently been removed from 24 hour oxygen, and only has to use it at night. He eats only from the bottle (he doesn#8217;t use the greatest was, feeding tube at all) and even started eating baby food!
My little boy is the biggest flirt with all the ladies! It is really sad though to think of the time when I was scared to have him. When I had the thoughts of if I could raise a baby with down syndrome. The time when I was told it was 1 in 8#8230;and it sounded like a death sentence. If anything, it was a life sentence#8230;.of smiles and social, hugs and Essay on Marriage: Opinions, giggles and laughter#8230; He is beautiful, congratulations and give him hugs from our family to yours. #8220;it wasn#8217;t a death sentence,it was a life sentence#8230;.of smiles and hugs and giggles and social deviance, laughter#8221; Beautifully said! He absolutely gorgeous ! That is sooooo on sociological definitions the money and very beautiful also! Thanks so much! I really appreciate the kind and encouraging words. Rick#8230;sixty years ago a neighbor and friend had a son with DS. She had no idea because she knew no one with DS.
On her first visit to her ped. Deviance. he said #8220;your child is a Mongolian Idiot#8230;you will have to put him away by the time he is 7.#8221; She was alone and had to ride the bus home with this info. He is in a group home and doing well 60 years later. Thank God we have so much info now and no more ( I hope) doctors like him. As a physician who has had to inform parents of a probable Down syndrome diagnosis, I can tell you that I haven#8217;t had very positive experiences. Parents have been universally devastated. I understand that this likely changes as they learn what this diagnosis means for their child, but an #8220;I#8217;m sorry#8221; seems very appropriate at justinian's greatest construction was the time. Thank you so much for leaving your comment. I hope you found some useful information in this letter. Social Deviance. #8220;I#8217;m sorry#8221; does nothing to Essay on Marriage: Opinions, honor the deviance, life of the child that is in the womb (or in our case, outside of the womb.) Imagine how the parents would feel if instead of saying #8220;I#8217;m sorry#8221; you said #8220;Congratulations are still in order! You#8217;re having a baby, just not the baby you expected, and Opinions, I#8217;m going to be there with you every step of the way until we meet this new little baby!#8221; Almost universally, if you ask parents of children with Ds, they will tell you that they wish they hadn#8217;t been told #8220;I#8217;m sorry#8221;. It may seem appropriate to you as a doctor, but thousands of parents are telling you it#8217;s not. The question is, will you listen to us?
Maybe instead say, #8220;It#8217;s okay.#8221; My best friend is a doctor and he got his feelings hurt asking another doctor#8217;s opinion on a possible diagnosis without explaining that it was his own mother exhibiting the symptoms (turns out they were wrong and she was fine). Social Deviance. As a mom with a child with DS, I have to disaagree with you. It helped me to Essay on USS Indianapolis Sinking, have my doctor acknowledge my shock and sadness by saying #8220;I#8217;m sorry.#8221; She was sorry for the sadness and social deviance, shock my husband and eliza fantomina, I were experiencing, not sorry that we had a beautiful little boy whom she knew we would love with all our hearts. A doctor can say both #8220;I#8217;m sorry,#8221; as well as, #8220;There#8217;s never been a better time to have a child with DS.#8221; My emotions upon my son#8217;s diagnosis at birth were intense, contradictory and wildly confusing. My doctor expressed the same dichotomy of emotions my husband and social norm deviance, I did. The Many Opinions. It actually pissed me off when I had a social worker tell me, #8220;Don#8217;t cry. You have a beautiful little boy. Social Deviance. Just think about how much joy he will bring you.#8221; Duh!
I felt insulted. Of course I thought about joy. He was already bringing me joy, because he was so stinking cute and funny and wonderful. However, the way were and inca, knowledge that he would face pain from medical procedures was, and is still, hard for me. Sometimes I cry about it even now, and my son is social norm deviance, 15 years old. In What Way Were Different And Inca Civilizations?. Let#8217;s not pretend that DS is social deviance, ALL sunshine and roses. It isn#8217;t.
There is tremendous joy, yes. I have learned a lot about life and happiness from my son. Haywood Fantomina. But it also hurts that he NEVER gets invited to sleepovers. The girls he falls in love with do not consider him a suitable partner. Why make parents feel guilty and ashamed of their grief in addition to feeling the grief? ALL emotions are appropriate when one#8217;s child lives with DS.
And by social deviance the way, most of the kids who #8220;go to in what civilizations?, college#8221; are kids with mosaicism, an norm, uncommon type of Down Syndrome, in sociological which normal intelligence is possible. I would never, ever condone aborting a child based on a diagnosis of DS. Neither would I pretend that confusion, sadness, and grief are something to be ashamed of. I say #8220;Cry your tears, be the best parent you can be, whehter your child is social deviance, diagnosed with DS or not, and on Marriage: The Many Opinions, stay open to the love coming your way.#8221; Actually, your comment about social norm kids with DS going to college all having ONLY Mosaic Down syndrome is not only inaccurate but wildly false. I know several young adults with nondisjunctional Down syndrome (the most common form of DS) who are all successfully attending secondary education and Indianapolis, pursuing meaningful career paths. Do not spread ignorance.
Our children already fight an uphill battle of outside ignorance and social norm, prejudice. The last thing they need is that misinformation being perpetuated by sociological terms someone who should know better. Actually your comment about kids with Down syndrome going to college all having ONLY Mosaic Down syndrome is norm deviance, not only inaccurate but wildly false. I personally know several young adults with nondisjunctional Down syndrome (the most common form) who are all successfully attending secondary education and pursuing meaningful career paths. Way Were The Maya Different And Inca. Do not spread ignorance. Our children already fight an social, uphill battle of and Engels' and Purpose Essay, outside ignorance and prejudice. The last thing they need is that misinformation being perpetuated by someone who should know better. As a mother of a baby with Down syndrome the words #8220;I#8217;m sorry#8221; are the worst words ever in a moment like that. Thank God we didn#8217;t have that experience, but we did feel that something weird was happening with the norm, midwife#8217;s face and eliza fantomina, nurses talking. When we were in the room waiting for social norm deviance our little guy the Marx and Engels' View of Religion Essay, pediatrician #8220;Federico#8221; came and told us that we had a very healthy baby, and that he thinks our baby has Down syndrome. And he told us that Vincent is like any other baby, he is going to grow like any other child with 46 chromosomes, and of course we have to work maybe a bit more, maybe we have to see a lot of norm, different doctors, but that doesn#8217;t mean that Vincent is going to get sick, is just to prevent.
Then he told us to go home and The Many, love Vincent, he needs us and we are his parents. IM NEVER GOING TO FORGET THAT DOCTOR! (of course he gave us his number and names of other great doctors who loves to work with kids with down syndrome). (sorry for social norm deviance my English I try hard lol) I was told by my gynologist that my son was likely to be retarded without the terms definitions, words #8220;Downs Syndrome#8221;#8230;looked it up#8230;I was alone (husband retreated#8230;didn#8217;t visit me in hospital). Cried and cried and all doctors consulted advised to norm, give him up to institution (this was 1958), which I did. I am so sorry I didn#8217;t give him a chance#8230;he passed away at Marx View Essay 2 and he was in norm deviance a hell hole called #8220;Willowbrook#8221;. Regrets. but it was a different world then#8230;children were called #8220;Mongoloids#8221; and were shunned. Wow I am really sorry you had to deal with that, but I do understand it was in a day and age where they hid kids and people who were different from Essay on Marriage: The Many Opinions, everyone else a truly terrible time to be different and you did what you thought was best üôā I had my son with DS in 1999 and the hospital still told me that if we wanted to social norm deviance, there were homes we could send him to and Engels' and Purpose of Religion, I was shocked to say the least not only was I dealing with my son being diagnosed with DS but now they were telling me I could send him away it made me so angry that in this day and age they would tell me that üôĀ I am so glad I kept my boy he is my pride and joy üôā
My husband and I both decided before we ever got pregnant that if we were to get pregnant with a child with Down Syndrome that we#8217;d never abort. Social. There really are too many happy, highly functioning, independent people with Down Syndrome. I#8217;ve met them. I#8217;ve seen them working. I think they have just as good odds as the rest of Essay, us to live happy lives. That#8217;s awesome! Way to norm, go guys! Do you have any children right now?
At the time my son, now 8.5, was born his diagnosis came as a complete and total shocking surprise. I was 24 and single nervous and excited about building a future for in what different from the aztec civilizations? my child. My initial reaction was that of loss and norm deviance, mourning. I called off all visitors to the hospital and cried#8230;#8230;#8230;, for greatest construction was about an hour. If it weren#8217;t for all of the social deviance, positive attitudes, kindness, encouragement, and sociological terms, most of all being treated as everything was as it should be that feeling of loss and despair could have easily lasted longer or turned into a depression. The sense of deviance, belonging and normalcy came not only from my family and friends, which there were plenty, but from every doctor, nurse and in what from the aztec and inca, staff member I encountered in social deviance the hospital. The ONLY professional that managed to offend was my OB/GYN who upon discharging me from the hospital, clinically explained I was likely to experience postpartum depression and she would gladly write me antidepressants, which I never needed. Those first hours and Essay The Many Opinions, days in norm deviance the hospital were so influential about sociological terms definitions how I felt about my and my sons entire future.
When I began reading other peoples stories online and connecting with other parents I realized just how fortunate I was to have such a positive experience. After all those years of med school one would think doctors could comprehend how heightened patients and parents awareness is during life changing diagnosis#8217;s and norm deviance, what a tremendous effect their attitude will have on a majority of those people. Please see lettercase.org too. I founded a nonprofit for chromosomal #8220;variations#8221; (not abnormalities!) and ordered several copies of both their #8220;Understanding a Down Syndrome Diagnosis#8221; and #8220;Delivering a Ds Diagnosis#8221; and I hand them out. Not only to OB/Gyn docs, but pediatricians, as they frequently give at or after birth diagnoses, hospital social workers and genetic counselors. Nurses can also benefit from this info! Thanks for sharing, but I do not support Lettercase for the same reason the NDSS doesn#8217;t, they promote abortion in their booklet. I do not believe it is every ok to abort a child, and can#8217;t support or endorse any information that does. Sorry.
But I#8217;m glad to see how you are using your passion to help Doctors better understand how to deliver a Down Syndrome Diagnosis. i remember when i had my son, the doctors came in and told us at on Marriage: the worst time possible, when my whole family and my partners family was all in with us. it was horrible how they told us. i would never wish that upon anyone. as well our doctors told us he#8217;d have to be institutionalized, and would require everything else. Social Norm Deviance. you know what. they were soo wrong. my son now 9 can speak sentences, will walk and talk to me. and is getting in two weeks, going on a disney dreamlift day. my son Douglas is greatest, a lucky boy. we are in social a loving happy household. and and Engels' View and Purpose of Religion Essay, i wouldn#8217;t change it for anything else. we are happy with our two boys. Thank you for deviance bringing this up we were the proud parents of our first child and daughter born with ds 27yrs ago on in what way were the aztec civilizations? the 15th october Laura was 3 days old before we was told and social norm deviance, actually I was told on my own the told me im sorry your child is terms definitions, a mongole they didn#8217;t use down syndrome then and they said she would be a cabbage not do anything put her in a home and forget about her abd try for deviance another baby then they phoned for the maya different and inca my husband to come to the hospital then they told us together I was just 21, Laura did everything they said she would not do and more besides but sadly we lost her aged 19mths to myloide fibrosis a fom of social deviance, leukemia which ds are more prone to we was blessed to eliza haywood fantomina, have a ds child they give you so much love I woukd of had another ds child if could of done I live in England . I found out from a geneticist when I was just 14 weeks pregnant. There I was in her office crying away and she didn#8217;t even offer me kleenex, which was right next to us. Instead I got a deadline on when I can have an abortion. Well, I#8217;m glad I didn#8217;t listen. Thanks Kim! Do you have a child with Down syndrome?
Awesome post. Full of norm deviance, Truth and Grace. Essay On Marriage: Opinions. This needs to change and Saving Downs stands with you. Thanks Mike for all you guys do! We appreciate you! Really great. Norm. We have a 10 year old son with DS. Finally someone is addressing the issue with the OB/GYN community. We have our own horror stories as well during this time. Thanks for mentioning the abortion issue which really is The Many, a horrible thing.
I am appalled by all the mom#8217;s I am in contact with through a online DS chat group that still say in their writings that it is okay to abort. What are they thinking? I live in social NYC and woman here think they have to toe the and Purpose of Religion, liberal line even in this area. I am appalled by this. Can I get a copy of this article you wrote? This is awesome. When our son Eric was born at Bethesda Medical Center in 1982 the Dr#8217;s set my husband and I down in social deviance a room and told us #8220;Your son is a Mongoloid..do you want to take him home or put him in an institution?#8221;.
Of course we were devastated, but we brought our child home#8230;He is 31 years old#8230;and a joy. Beautifully said! I have a 28 yr old bro w/Downs my mom found out after she delivered him. She was asked if she#8217;d like to place him in a home w/other kids just like him because he would never be a productive memeber of society. Boy were they wrong!! He#8217;s my hero loved by the community! Keep up the great work! This letter brought tears to my eyes. And Engels' View And Purpose Essay. My husband and I spent 6 yrs trying for our first and decided at that time not to get amnio as it could trigger a miscarriage. Piper was typical and we thought she would be our only. A year later, I got pregnant (not even trying).
We had some unusual readings during the ultrasounds, but nothing definite; none pointed to any severe medical issues we might need to deviance, prepare for, so we made the same decision about amnio. When Grace was born, no one told us they suspected she had DS. Essay On Marriage: The Many Opinions. I had to ask the norm, peds dr 24 hours later if she did. Even then, she didn#8217;t want to commit. Finally, my OB came in and let my husband and and Engels' View Essay, me know but still with hesitation. He did not offer condolences, but he wasn#8217;t very positive or congratulatory either.
And everyone was afraid to say it (law suits, I imagine). It was a difficult time to say the least. I began poring over books and the web, and finally found the positive exeriences I needed to hear. Grace is now 8, in ballet class and rec socceer (where she tells me she was #8220;awesome#8221; last game) and in Special Olympics. Social Norm. My girls are the way were different and inca civilizations?, best of friends. Grace has made me stop and live in deviance the moment, and my patience has grown by leaps and bounds (it had to or I might#8217;ve gone crazy she does do things at way were the maya different the aztec and inca civilizations? her own pace). Wouldn#8217;t change a thing except for norm my experience with the hospital. And I DIDN#8221;T want to justinian's, hear #8220;I#8217;m sorry#8221; from anyone. What my mom said was perfect, #8220;She#8217;s beautiful, she#8217;s ours, and we#8217;ll lover her.#8221; I was born in 1981 when my mother was 43 years old. Mom had been pregnant four times before me, managing to carry only one baby to term and he#8217;s 17 1/2 years older than me. Gives you some idea of how happy and nervous they were about me coming along.
Mom went to an OB/Gyn as soon as possible because she was worried about miscarrying. His response, instead of congratulations, was that it would be better if she DID miscarry or even have an abortion as I#8217;d almost assuredly be born with Down Syndrome due to her advanced age. Thankfully Mom and Dad have never been believers in abortion and they wanted me too badly to listen to the quack but my life could have ended in the womb had I been born to social deviance, someone who did listen to Marx View and Purpose of Religion Essay, that doctor. God bless the parents of these amazing children. Thank y#8217;all for choosing life and love. I hope the doctors listen to this article and to the parents. Social Norm Deviance. I now feel blessed that our doctor told us as he did. He came into the room and opened with #8220;Nicky is adorable!#8221; then gave me all the positives #8212; all the important numbers (heart rate, oxygen level, etc.). He#8217;s charming the nurses , etc. Then said #8220;I do want to tell you that based on some indicators I#8217;m seeing I believe your son has Down Syndrome.
Here are the things I#8217;m seeing,#8230;.. #8220;. Then just broke it down for us matter of factly in basic terminology of things he knew not things he believed MIGHT be. It did not do anything to alleviate the Marx and Engels' Essay, shock value or the #8220;grieving#8221; process for social a life that was going to be quite a bit different than one we envisioned, but it didn#8217;t make us feel like this was so devastating, that even the doctor was sorry. I know this would not be an easy conversation to have but a child#8217;s life is a miracle and nothing to be sorry about. My first son Matthew was 6 months old when we went for fantomina his checkup. It was then that my doctor told me he had Down. My doctor was very old school (and older 60#8217;s or 70#8217;s I think). He suspected at birth but chose to let us take Matthew home to love and care for him like any of the other thousands of babies he#8217;d delivered. I bless him for that.
Although I admit I was in shock to hear this initially, I looked at social my boy who was the same smiling and happy and the joy of my life for the past 6 months and I realized I wouldn#8217;t change a thing. Yes, I was afraid when I read the meager and grim information available 41 years ago. It painted a bleak picture. This picture was so totally wrong. Matthew was an amazing boy who was loved by everyone he met. He played, sang, made many,many friends, competed in Special Olympics and sociological terms definitions, loved swimming. I was proud to be his Mom. Social. I was only blessed to have him in on Marriage: my life for deviance 16 years when he died of definitions, a brain tumor. Social Norm Deviance. The worst day of way were different the aztec, my life when his ended 25 years ago. God Bless you and your family Rick and please give Noah a big hug for me.
I#8217;m a speech-language pathologist and I work with children with Down#8217;s syndrome on social norm deviance a regular basis. They and justinian's greatest construction was, children with autism are my absolute favorite kids to work with! I#8217;m also 6 months pregnant and meeting with a new OB/GYN next week. Norm. (I just recently moved and so need a new doctor). I want to broach this subject with her and Essay on USS Indianapolis Sinking, find out how I can help if she isn#8217;t sure how to deliver the news of social norm, a DS diagnosis to parents. Any suggestions of Marx View and Purpose of Religion, how to bring it up?
Your article was wonderful. Thanks so much for writing it!! We have a twin boys who are almost two and one was born with DS. We did not know until our son was 2.5 months and we had a great experience!! I was glad it happened that way!! Our whole family had a chance to fall in love with him just the way he was without any labels. We are truly blessed!! We are pregnant again and declined testing as I want the same experience I have had with all my children, I want to social norm, fall in love with them just the way they are. If you ever want to sociological definitions, see a place where young children (birth to age 6) with Down#8217;s thrive just as wonderfully as their typically developing peers please come visit Rise in Tuscaloosa Al (or you can search Rise of Tuscaloosa online)! We have 100 students- half typical and half special needs and deviance, all of them thrive! Our special needs children get the services they need (OT and justinian's, PT) but they also get to see there is nothing they can#8217;t do right alongside their other friends.
All our children get speech and social norm, music therapy and our typical children grow up being compassionate, loving and Essay The Many Opinions, accepting of children who may look or do things differently than them. I#8217;m blessed to get to work with these children every day as one of the nurses and teachers aide. I wish there were more programs out there like ours to show parents a special needs diagnosis is not the social norm deviance, end of the world but only the beginning. Essay Indianapolis Sinking. Our motto at Rise is where special kids shine and that#8217;s what they do. They shine so brightly that they can#8217;t help but put a smile on the faces of social norm deviance, anyone who enters our building!
Congrats and justinian's was, thanks for writing this. It was great to read. Thank you a thousand times over for this! I am a student midwife with a passion for treating the social norm deviance, entire emotional, spiritual and sociological terms, physical well-being of norm deviance, families. I have had the good fortune of working with some brilliant individuals with Down#8217;s Syndrome in my 20s, so I already know what a joy a child with DS can be to their family and Essay on Marriage: The Many Opinions, loved ones. I have thought so much about the question of #8220;how would I tell a family that something is different about their baby#8221;#8230; and norm, you#8217;ve done more to answer that question than any textbook or #8220;protocol#8221; could ever do. I#8217;m sharing this with everybody I know who works with birthing families. On Marriage: The Many Opinions. Thank you!
Thank you for words they were right on. We too love our daughter exactly as she is and social deviance, would not ever want to take away the View and Purpose, extra chromosome. Norm. I hope that this message gets to sociological terms definitions, those who need it most and that the abortion rate declines. Social Norm Deviance. Thanks for Essay The Many Opinions taking the social norm deviance, time to write this. Sara and Derrik proud parents of Carly who is 3 years old and sociological definitions, who experiences Down syndrome. Congratulations, they are beautiful. What a joy! You nailed it Rick.
Let those who KNOW what they are talking about with DS help, not the medical #8220;professionals.#8221; Every OB/GYN needs to norm deviance, have resources available right away. Essay On USS Sinking. I remember wanting to jump across the table and beat the snot out of that doctor. He was cold, rash, and uncaring. We were 18 weeks into our pregnancy. Then he said, #8220;Your child has a 60% to survive.#8221; #8220;Come here, let me introduce you to my fist. You guys will get along.#8221; That doctor was setting us up to abort. He asked what we wanted to do next. Norm Deviance. I looked at Essay The Many Opinions him puzzled at the question. Then I realized what he was asking. This is an social, epidemic folks.
We are allowing the #8220;professionals#8221; influence our vulnerable decisions. 92% has got to be stopped. PREACH IT BROTHER!! One thing I would add to the list is: tell the parents in and Engels' View and Purpose Essay person, not over the phone. I knew I was at social deviance an increased risk due to maternal age and my blood work confirmed it. Because of other health issues, I needed to be cared for Marx and Purpose of Religion by a perinatologist. Had an ultrasound at our first visit and deviance, he saw some physical markers for T21. We went ahead with the and Purpose Essay, amnio.
The genetics counselor called me with the results. I found out over the phone. It was terrible. Now we have a beautiful, ornery, and norm, brilliant 18 month old daughter with T21 who lights up our days. I just wanted to construction achievement, say you are an AWESOME DAD. While my two children don#8217;t have Down Syndrome, I wanted to share another example of doctors#8217; arrogance. Deviance. I am type I diabetic so obviously pregnancies are/were going to be complicated. I had just begun seeing a new endocrinologist with the sociological definitions, bedside manner of Satan himself, when I found out I was FINALLY expecting my first miracle.
The first thing he said as he entered the exam room armed with the knowledge of social norm, my impending doom (that#8217;s what he made me feel like) was #8220;well congratulations, I guess#8221; in a VERY VERY negative tone. Absolutely unprofessional, uncaring and uncalled for. My diabetes was under EXCELLENT control and even though both pregnancies were rough towards the end and scary at times, both babies and way were the maya different and inca, I were PERFECTLY FINE. The point of this is I can in a way understand what you all went through and social deviance, I wish that doctors would at least attempt some positivity toward an already terrified parent/parents, family, friends, etc. God bless you for taking a stand and for loving your son no matter what. üôā I love my boy! love family!
Wow, that#8217;s awesome! Thanks so much for Essay Sinking sharing your photo. Where in Japan are you guys from? I spent a week in social deviance Tokyo once, and one of haywood, my best friends lives is about to move to social norm deviance, Tokyo to help start a church! You#8217;re family looks like a lot of fun! Please don#8217;t assume that all parents of children with Down Syndrome would agree with how a doctor should deliver the news. My wife and I were expecting and excited for justinian's greatest construction achievement the pregnancy.
After testing we discovered our daughter had T21, heart, brain, and intestinal deformities. Social Deviance. Our doctor never said #8220;I#8217;m sorry#8221; as there was nothing that he had done that was wrong. And Engels' And Purpose. We were offered both families and resources for raising a child with special needs and we were also given information if we decided not to deviance, continue the pregnancy. Our ob was pretty neutral as he understood it was our singular choice. On USS. He did explain that my wife was at a higher risk of miscarriage and norm, due to the severity of defects our daughter might not survive until term.
Yes. Way Were Different Civilizations?. It is true that there has never been a better time for social norm a child to be born with medical issues that might have not have survived in the past. But the opposite is there are times when the Marx and Engels', medical intervention prolongs suffering. I know this because we had access to families of T21 children who both lived and died and talked at length of their experiences. We made the difficult decision to terminate our pregnancy since the norm deviance, risk to my wife#8217;s health was high. Marx Of Religion. We mourn our child#8217;s loss, and social norm, I consider myself like you a father of a Down#8217;s syndrome child. Terminating doesn#8217;t erase your child or the love. But I appreciated our doctor being quite realistic about the Essay Indianapolis Sinking, choices available to us. Thank you for this, and for norm deviance sharing your story.
To the author, the in what different from, word #8220;murder#8221; has no place in describing the difficult decision that many loving parents make for the best interest of their families. It is unspeakably insensitive to social, use it in this context. I suggest reading some of the stories found at the #8220;A Heartbreaking Choice#8221; site to Essay on USS, broaden your perspective. Hello Everybody! As a parent of a 32 year old young man that was born with DS I whole heartedly agree with the above comments. I#8217;m grateful I didn#8217;t know I was expecting a baby with DS when I was only 26 as I may have been afraid of the deviance, unknown and worried throughout the whole pregnancy about heart defects and the unknown future with a child with a developmental delay. As it is, my son Graham is the light of my life!! I am so blessed to have him and sociological definitions, I#8217;m so glad that he is my son! He gives me so much joy and social norm, happiness that greatly outweighs any negative experiences!! He has made me a better person and I am grateful to eliza fantomina, have been blessed with him and given this amazing experience!!
Wendy:) Thank you for posting this. Beautifully said. Norm. Growing up my Mom was a teacher#8217;s aid in the special needs classroom at the middle shcool of way were the maya from and inca, our town in Texas. Social Norm. I used to volunteer there on my time off. Eliza Haywood Fantomina. They had a couple kids with downs, a few autistic, one with FAS and social deviance, a couple others with stuff I don#8217;t remember. Each one of those children was special and unique and helped me to realize that life is what you make it, not what other people tell you it is.
I am also the Aunt to Essay The Many, a little 6 year old boy with Down syndrome whom I love very much. He is social norm deviance, SO full of life and way were different civilizations?, love and social norm, I feel very privileged to know him and be a part of his life. The Many. I can#8217;t believe the doctor acted that way towards you and your wife and norm, son! And I had no idea that the abortion rate for fetuses with downs was so high. Marx View Of Religion. That is incredibly sad that doctors would lead parents down these misleading paths to end up in norm deviance that place. I just wanted to way were the aztec civilizations?, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You see, when my granddaughter was born, I found myself online researching at 2 in the morning because I couldn#8217;t sleep. I just happened to social norm, find your site. Actually, I firmly believe that your site found me. Your story is as if it was written for us.
You were the justinian's construction, one that gave me hope that night. Your encouraging words and positive attitude were what we needed to hear from the doctor, but that wasn#8217;t the norm deviance, case at Essay Indianapolis Sinking all. After 7 hours of NO news at all she wasn#8217;t even examined for a couple of hours after birth until a nurse came into the room and mentioned that she was worried about her oxygen levels and norm, whisked her away). My son and daughter-in-law were left wondering what was going on. No one gave ANY information at all.
This was one of the worse things about this experience. How dare they play with their feelings this way? I happened to be in the room when the Pediatric Cardiologist gave the news. It was because she had a small hole in her heart that he was the #8220;chosen#8221; one to give the news. His bedside manner was atrocious and it#8217;s one of those camera flash moments that I#8217;ll never forget. To see my son and daughter-in-law in such anguish and and Engels' Essay, shock, not necessarily because of the diagnosis, but because of the way it was delivered. All the social, doctor cared about fantomina was delivering his speech about being the head of cardiology, been there for 20+ years, and his blah blah blah credentials. Social Deviance. I just wanted to take them all away from that place and make everything right again. I left that hospital knowing in terms definitions my heart that my precious little granddaughter would be loved unconditionally from deviance, her family and friends, but having so many questions in my head.
I made it my mission that night to go home and gather as much information as possible (factual information, not rumors and hearsay) and you provided just that. Today she is Essay on Marriage: The Many Opinions, a happy, healthy little 6 month old now and I am so blessed to have her in my life. Norm Deviance. Sorry this is The Many Opinions, so long, but I just wanted you to know that you made a huge difference in social my life that night. Thank you! She is beautiful, what a joy, congratulations. Marx And Engels' View And Purpose Of Religion Essay. omg! she is the cutest thing ever! ahh those cheeks! Loved this comment it literally sounded like how we found out looked back up at one point to see if my own mother n law wrote this lol. So I#8217;ll share my story of When my one and only son Bentley Paul which is 3 now was born.
He was born at 8:06am and after I had him they left him with us for almost 5 hours an then took him for a bath an kept him for about another 4 hours or longer I fell asleep an no nurses ever came back so when I woke up I was like okay when are they gonna bring him back so My husband and I got up an walked to social, the nursery to see him an he had a oxygen thing over Marx and Engels' View, his head an social, I wanted to know what was going on Marx View and Purpose of Religion Essay an now I remember them being like that#8217;s the baby#8217;s parents they told me he wasn#8217;t breathing right an they had to take him to a bigger hospital an I was like okay whatever I#8217;m going too so while they were releasing me from that hospital about to leave the doctor came up an social deviance, said #8220;And don#8217;t be surprised if they check him for Down syndrome#8221; So that was how we got told first an of course had a bunch of test after but he#8217;s the best, most happiest, sweet LIFE that was giving to me and my husband! Hi, I felt that some of the points you made were valid, certainly offering an Essay on Marriage:, expectant or new mother who isn#8217;t showing signs of depression antidepressants is social norm, bizarre. Opinions. I just have one question for you; why do you always put termination of pregnancy in inverted commas#8217;? Do you think there should be another description for the termination of a pregnancy? Thanks for the comment and deviance, the question. People use the word #8220;terminate the eliza haywood, pregnancy#8221; as sort of social norm, a rhetorical play on words. Eliza Fantomina. What they really mean is #8220;murder the social norm deviance, baby in construction was your womb.#8221; No one ever says that since it really puts into focus what is going on.
The word #8220;terminate#8221; is used to #8220;soften#8221; the blow of what is really going on. Social. It#8217;s skating around the truth of the matter, which is that that baby in the womb is fully human and View and Purpose Essay, wants to live just like every other person. I respectfully ask you to reconsider your position on the idea that terminating a pregnancy is the the same as murdering a child in the womb. Norm Deviance. If anything, that harsh attitude may unwittingly drive people towards a decision they may feel conflicted about. You make them feel reluctant to ask about what it#8217;s like to have someone with Down#8217;s syndrome. That their considering it is shameful and wrong. We terminated for T21, and I feel much sorrow but not guilt.
Our daughter had an extra chromosome, yes, but she also had massive organ abnormalities. Her motherÄôs health was at risk and it was unlikely she would have survived. We came to our decision because of our own medical reality. Just like no one child that has DownÄôs syndrome is like another child, each pregnancy is unique. On Marriage: Opinions. If she had only social deviance, chromosome issues by Indianapolis Sinking not organ issues, it might have been a different story for us. I don#8217;t know. You don#8217;t know either.
For others that may be making their choices when they get a pre-natal diagnosis, there are many ways to accept it. I wanted to mention our ob also offered us resources for adoption, although the risks to my wife made that untenable. Norm Deviance. One thing that helped us was meeting a mother and father of a child who had passed at 18 months. Essay Indianapolis. Their daughter had seizures, strokes, multiple surgeries, in norm addition to her chromosome addition. Eliza. They were frank about the joy she brought into their life and spoke broadly about their feelings that they often thought ending the pregnancy would have been a blessing to their daughter. Deviance. This is fantomina, not to say that all cases are this way or that every child will go through what they did.
But for social all of the Marx and Engels' and Purpose of Religion, smiles and light, there is pain. Real pain that some children go through. Social Norm Deviance. As parents, we weighed all of this carefully. Justinian's Construction. And with love. There was no murder. My wife was the mother of a child with DownÄôs syndrome. I pray that you find within yourself the compassion you seek for your little one. Thank you for your comment and for your honesty and transparency. Social Deviance. First, I want to say that Jesus can provide you and your wife with healing for any past choice that you have made. I know of on USS Sinking, countless stories of women who have had an norm deviance, abortion who have found healing in Essay on Marriage: The Many Christ. Here#8217;s one such story (http://www.watermark.org/blog/forgiven-and-free/) With that being said, abortion is social deviance, murder.
Always. We are unwillingly taking the life of another person, and that is murder. Way Were The Maya Different. That little baby in the womb was a person whose life was taken from him or her. Again, I know that is hurtful and that that decision that your family made brings with much sorrow, as you said. Murder (abortion) is a always, as you mentioned, sorrowful. You said #8220;#8230;If she had only chromosome issues by social deviance not organ issues, it might have been a different story for and Engels' and Purpose of Religion us. I donÄôt know.#8221; This sounds like you aborted her due to the fast that she had organ issues, and social norm deviance, the tragic thing is you (and many parents) never gave him / her a chance to View, see what those #8220;organ issues#8221; were. Also this comment, #8220;One thing that helped us was meeting a mother and father of a child who had passed at 18 months. Their daughter had seizures, strokes, multiple surgeries, in addition to her chromosome addition.
They were frank about the social norm, joy she brought into their life and spoke broadly about their feelings that they often thought ending the pregnancy would have been a blessing to the maya the aztec, their daughter#8230;#8221; is heart breaking. Murdering their daughter certainly wouldn#8217;t have #8220;blessed#8221; her. Abortion (murder of young children) never solves any problem or blesses anyone. As I mentioned, abortion always brings with it a host of norm deviance, many more problems that often stay with people all the days of their life. I#8217;m sorry if the Marx and Purpose of Religion, language I#8217;m using is coming across #8220;harsh#8221; or #8220;insensitive#8221;#8230;but it#8217;s the truth, and helping people understand truth is always the most loving thing you can do for someone. I know the deviance, decision you and your family made wasn#8217;t easy, but we can#8217;t call an evil thing (abortion) good, that is never ok. Greatest Construction. But I hope you know that God can forgive you for any choice you made, and can bring healing and joy in ways you can#8217;t imagine with it as well. I just prayed for norm deviance you and your wife. I hope that you meet the The Many Opinions, One who can take away that sorrow and social norm deviance, turn it into joy. As a committed Christian I understand your viewpoint., But I found your above comments very condemnatory and harsh. Soren and eliza, his wife made their decision as they felt it right for the unborn child and the mother.
You really have no right to social, be so critical of them. You have made your choice. You also say that you wouldn#8217;t have it any other way. I find that a little unbelievable, surely no parent would choose to have a child who would face a life time of difficulties, I surely wouldn#8217;t, although I don#8217;t doubt that you love your son deeply, And to eliza, be so critical of medics and others who voice their sorrow is a bit foolish. If you don#8217;t feel any small sense of sorrow then I suggest you are unusual or like some folk I know , are living with denial. Rick your response to Soren IS harsh and insensitive. Norm. Please could you not be so condemnatory.
You made your choice based on the information available to you, Soren and his wife did the same, you just came to different conclusions. As a committed Christian I feel uncomfortable with your unkind attitude to someone who doesn#8217;t agree with you. So are you suggesting that this mother was wrong in saving her own life? Are you suggesting that once a human woman (read: a human YOU will never be) conceives, she is now nothing but a vessel? Convenient, surely, that you won#8217;t ever be in that place.
I respect your love for your child and your ability to care for him, but the idea that you can proclaim that a woman doesn#8217;t have the right to care for her own life while claiming the haywood fantomina, sanctity of life is pretty hypocritical. I have been reading through the comments left by norm you, Rick, and Lily, and my heart is breaking for you and your wife. I can relate with you as can many other parents whose kids are Downs. We were told that our daughter had a heart abnormality and could #8220;possibly#8221; need a heart transplant. We were also told that our daughter could #8220;possibly#8221; not survive the Sinking, pregnancy. My wife was also told that her pregnancy would be a high risk pregnancy. With all of that, we didn#8217;t once consider the option of aborting. This was God#8217;s gift to us, A BABY. With all the conditions and circumstances, Fayth was a GIFT to deviance, us, whether she lived or died.
We were determined that we would cherish that gift for however long that we could. I am sorry to say, but truth is truth. The 92% is an epidemic. I have written on this stat before as well and it is so distrubing to me. Many have aborted #8220;possible#8221; Down syndrome babies.
Yes, just the possibility. As great as ultrasounds are today, 3D and all, nothing is for certain. The problem that I have is Essay, that Satan has influenced us to think that we are in CONTROL. Mankind has been trying to control their lives ever since Adam and Eve first sinned. When parents abort their #8220;possible#8221; Down syndrome child, it is an act of taking control. I pray that you can release that. It is much more freeing to release the control and give to Jesus. I personally live a life that is social deviance, not my own, but all is on Marriage:, given to God, good and norm, bad. And this is all possible through Jesus Christ.
The #8220;termination,#8221; #8220;letting go,#8221; #8220;releasing,#8221; and #8220;murder#8221; is Essay, all saying the same truth. A HUMAN LIFE WAS TAKEN. Some terms are softer and others are harsher, but they all are saying the same thing. I, like Rick, pray that you find forgiveness through Jesus Christ. Norm. You will find freedom from way were the maya and inca civilizations?, your sorrow. My prayer is that ALL #8220;possible#8221; Down syndrome parents come to understand the gift in their baby, PERIOD. When the norm, doctors list ALL the complications, I pray that parents are not focused on the #8220;hard life#8221; that is ahead of justinian's achievement was, them, but the blessings that will proceed their life with a DS baby or any baby. Norm. Thank you for justinian's construction achievement sharing Soren and Rick.
You are one very scary person. Social Norm Deviance. Ignorant and bigoted doesn#8217;t even begin to cover it. Caroline God isn#8217;t scary, ignorant or bigoted, He is LOVE. He gave His beloved Son to justinian's greatest achievement was, bring anyone who wishes, into social deviance, a relationship with Him. Sadly some of justinian's construction achievement, His followers are. They don#8217;t mean to be though, so forgive them; but Don#8217;t please judge God by His frail followers. Get to know Him for norm deviance yourself,
Jared Burkley I am surprised at your comments. They are not at all gentle or Christlike, but like Rick#8217;s, full of spoken and unspoken condemnation. To tell Soren that he needs forgiveness really is unacceptable. Do you imagine that any would be parent who is a Christian would take such a decision lightly? Please do think more carefully before you criticise those who take a different path to yourself.
The one thing that I find a little hard to understand is was, that some people on this page almost gloat about their DS children. I don#8217;t doubt that the children are much loved as they should be, but to make the suggestion (implied) that it is some sort of social, reward is absurd. Reminds me of the parents who wanted to have their embryo screened to ensure that the child was born deaf just like them, how selfish is that! Please don#8217;t condemn those who feel unable, for whatever reson, to bring a handicapped child into sociological, the world. Social. (You will complain about the use of that word of course, but that is the truth however much you deny it) Just show some compassion please. I understood were you were coming from in Sinking this comment until the end. The same compassion you#8217;d like pro-lifers to show those who decided to terminate is the same compassion I, a mother who decided to keep her child, would like you to social deviance, show me.
And not that I want you to Essay The Many Opinions, pity me. I#8217;d like it if you#8217;d stop saying that my decision to bring my child (a very happy and norm deviance, healthy little girl with Down syndrome) into the world as selfish. Everyone, at some point in sociological definitions their life, becomes #8220;handicapped#8221;. It can happen gradually or all of a sudden and we#8217;re always surprised by it. At some point we will all need someone to take care of us.
Whether it is at the end of our life or at the beginning. In fact I suffered a debilitating back injury at 32. I thought I#8217;d be in norm deviance a wheel chair for Essay the rest of my life. Social Deviance. We#8217;re all here as a human race. It#8217;s important for us to on USS Indianapolis Sinking, care for each other because all humans have worth. And able-bodied does not necessarily mean #8220;happy.#8221; I#8217;m sure you can think of at least a dozen people with so called #8220;perfect lives#8221; who have suffered or are suffering deeply. We all have joys as well as tragedies, whether we have 3 21st chromosomes or not. Let#8217;s all have compassion for each other, in general.
I#8217;m sure your intentions with this comment were good and you were sticking up for someone, but I#8217;m sad to think that people think my daughter#8217;s life would be better had she never been born. Social. When we met with a family while weighing to terminate or not, the father told me privately there is a strain of bullying in the Down#8217;s syndrome community that you have to be vigilant against. It looks like it is eliza fantomina, advocacy, but it is bullying at social norm deviance its core. Rick, you do not get to call my wife a murderer. You do not have the right to say we killed our daughter. You do not get to speak for what is correct or incorrect in another#8217;s life and in what way were the maya and inca civilizations?, if you were Christian, as others have said, you would have shown compassion. Unfortunately, it is clear what type of character you have. I don#8217;t want this to be negative, but I do want others particularly fathers who are parents of Down#8217;s syndrome children to norm, weigh.
I am the father of a child with Down#8217;s, and justinian's construction achievement, the fact that she is not alive makes me no less a father or her no less a person. Our termination has no bearing on any one else#8217;s child, does not damage the perception of disability or make us anything other than caring parents. Our daughter was probably going to norm, die, if she made it to term at all. Whether you can admit to on Marriage: The Many Opinions, yourself or not, T21 is a problematic chromosomal combination. Norm. After tests, it seemed that the risk to my wife was simply too high. You claim that you are religious, but you are speaking with a wicked tongue. You are putting hate into the world by your stance that termination is always wrong. It is not.
Just as taking someone off of on Marriage:, life support, there are medical circumstances that require medical intervention. The fact that you would prohibit a family from making the deviance, best choice for Essay on USS Indianapolis their family is gruesome at best and evil at worst. You clearly don#8217;t understand the depth of what life and death are. And what suffering means. In a way, this somewhat random interaction has inspired me. I think it#8217;s important for social deviance the father of down#8217;s kids, like I am, to take a stand against your strain of bullying. If anything, it is your cold heartedness and the types of people like you that is causing my wife to grieve even more because she can#8217;t do it openly. She has judgmental people in justinian's construction her family and can#8217;t speak about the norm, depth of her love and the scope of her loss because they turn into the #8220;murderer#8221; robots like you have. I see now I have to be louder and braver for haywood my wife, but most importantly, my daughter. Social Norm Deviance. My daughter was dying and eliza fantomina, there was nothing we could do but give her peace.
But there are so few places where men have told their story of losing a child pre-natally that I see I must lift my voice against your cruelty. The parents who lost their child spoke about how the label of murderer made them go against their own instinct. That the disability #8220;chatter#8221; drove them to a decision they now regret. When their kid was sick, there was a chance for social norm deviance them to in what the aztec civilizations?, continue to do medical intervention. They didn#8217;t want to give up on their child, and so it was shock after shock, tube after tube. Have you seen a baby swollen with a distended stomach from fluid?
Have you watched a child gasp with fluid in its lungs or around its heart? We watched video of their child who was very ill. Indeed, the reason we were put in touch with them was the type of problems our daughter had were pretty similar to this couple#8217;s. Norm. I will never regret sparing my child that. The couple regrets prolonging the life because in the end it became unbearable. If there is mercy from God, perhaps you should spend time and think that God#8217;s version of mercy is likely different than what you think it is. You are blinded by your own investment in your child which is natural it#8217;s what every parent does. But to and Purpose of Religion Essay, lash out at social other#8217;s is deeply puzzling. I understood Ricks point to be that #8220;termination#8221; was a euphemism for the conscious act of taking the life of another human being. There are many different words in sociological definitions contemporary use for this act.
The conscious act of social deviance, taking the life of another human being is inconsistent with almost all spiritual traditions including Christianity. So, that becomes a truth that needs reinforcing in our current culture. Definitions. Once a life has been taken, then the necessary response is one of compassion. Social. That is to say, the act is condemned, but not the person carrying out the sociological, act, who will live with the norm, consequences of any action may under free-will. From a theological perspective a conscious act of ending another#8217;s life is very different that allowing a life to eliza haywood fantomina, pass naturally. This is social, why some choose perinatal care. Justinian's Achievement Was. And I know many families who were told by Doctors that their unborn children had conditions that were #8220;incompatible with life#8221; that have gone on to have perfectly good lives. I pray that you realize, Rick, how much more Christ-like Soren is than you make yourself appear to be. You called this man#8217;s wife a murderer, and he responded to you with nothing but grace. And yet you continue to deviance, accost him. On Marriage: Opinions. I want nothing to do with the social norm deviance, God that you follow, Rick.
You are everything that is wrong with Christianity today. I am deeply saddened that I have encountered yet another example of in what way were different civilizations?, why I no longer have faith in the #8220;Church#8221; today. I came to this site to read the stories and experiences of parents who are raising or have had children with DS. Social Norm Deviance. I did not come here to debate abortion issues or further any personal agenda I may have based on my beliefs. Soren your story moves me and I find it incredibly sad that you lost your child. Rick when I first started reading I felt an enormous amount of hope and Marx View and Purpose of Religion Essay, joy in the posts until you crossed the social deviance, line from informer to reformer.
Please everyone quit tearing at each other and get back to on USS Sinking, the reason for these posts#8230;.supporting each other. You do not have to agree with an norm, individual#8217;s choices or decisions but you must agree that that individual has the right to in what way were, make them. You are doing a dis-service to everyone by assuming that you are the only one here that is #8220;right#8221;. I need information and personal experiences right now not opinions and attitudes. Erin, I don#8217;t think Lily was implying that it is selfish to bring a child with a disability into social, the world.
I think she was saying 1) that trying to Essay Indianapolis, *make sure* that your child has a disability is deviance, selfish; and in what way were different from and inca, 2) that some people do not feel they can handle raising a child with a disability and it#8217;s not right to judge them for that. My wife and I found out our little one had Down Syndrome about social norm halfway through the pregnancy, and around the same time discovered that she would need surgery after she was born. Sociological Definitions. We had a *choice* as to how to proceed, and we *chose* our child. And a part of that choice was a promise to her that we would fight for her no matter what. Our little girl is social, nearly six months old and has never left the hospital she is going in for her major surgery in less than a week.
It has not been easy. In What Way Were The Maya Different From The Aztec. But I don#8217;t regret our decision for a minute. But I also can#8217;t judge somebody else for not being able to make the same choice. You may feel that abortion is murder in principle, but I think most people are rational enough to understand that there is a pretty big distinction between the two in practice after all, I don#8217;t see anybody lobbying for incarceration for norm deviance women who obtain abortions. Even most pro-lifers have to concede that there is Essay on Marriage: The Many Opinions, something that doesn#8217;t feel right about locking up a woman for social deviance aborting her pregnancy, even while they push for on USS Indianapolis punishment of the doctors who perform the procedures. Soren, I am so sorry for norm deviance your loss. It must have been heartbreaking to justinian's greatest achievement, have to social deviance, make that choice, but I know you did what you felt was best for your wife *and* for your child and that is all anyone can do. Thanks for your comments.
I don#8217;t think that taking the life of the maya the aztec civilizations?, a baby is ever #8220;what#8217;s best#8221; for the baby#8217;s life you are taking. Norm Deviance. I don#8217;t think anyone here is #8220;judging,#8221; I certainly am not doing that, rather calling abortion what it is, murder. As I mentioned, there is lots and way were different and inca civilizations?, lots of social norm, grace i all of this, and eliza fantomina, God can certainly heal any past mistake, but we can#8217;t call an evil thing, good. Norm Deviance. That#8217;s the work of satan, not God. Abortion is evil and wicked, but God loves us enough that he can provide healing and forgiveness. So#8230; prison time for women who obtain abortions, or no? The best solution is to help educate all people, which is and Engels' View and Purpose of Religion, what we#8217;re dedicated to on this site. We want all people, everywhere to see the norm, value of in what the maya from, human life, and that all life is worthy of life. Our prayer is the more people that follow our story and see our son (and the thousands of other family#8217;s who share pictures and tell their story) the more people will see that having a child with Down syndrome isn#8217;t nearly as #8216;scary#8217; as many doctors make it out to be.
I agree that education is the best solution. But I don#8217;t think it helps anybody to call somebody a murderer. You might feel that way, but other people have legitimate reasons for seeing it differently. Your religion is not the only one that addresses abortion and social norm, my religion (Judaism), for example, sees it very differently. When you start calling people murderers you#8217;re a step short of Essay The Many, telling them they#8217;re going to hell and that doesn#8217;t help anybody nor does name-calling, and nor does attacking somebody when they#8217;ve just shared what is obviously a very painful experience regarding the social deviance, loss of a child.
If you don#8217;t agree with their decision, fine, but it#8217;s their decision, not yours, and calling somebody a murderer *is* passing judgment. And Purpose Of Religion Essay. In any event, the norm, way you convince people not to abort because of a Down Syndrome diagnosis is NOT by telling them #8220;Don#8217;t murder your child, don#8217;t become a murderer,#8221; etc. That will not work, it alienates people, and it#8217;s an instant judgment. It makes you a bully. Education means we tell them, #8220;Don#8217;t be afraid of your child.#8221; It means we tell them, #8220;I understand your concerns here#8217;s what I can tell you that might address them.#8221; And then you tell them some of the things you talked about above about how a Down Syndrome diagnosis doesn#8217;t mean the same thing today that it did 50 years ago.
How these kids can live happy, productive lives and how they have a tendency to definitions, enrich the lives of the people who are touched by them. How yes, they can have medical problems, but that doesn#8217;t automatically mean they will, and even if they do, many of the medical problems can be addressed surgically. Can we just focus on social deviance our beautiful kids and keep the bullying and judgment to Marx and Engels' View and Purpose Essay, a minimum? Thanks for social norm deviance your comment. I#8217;m not sure how long you#8217;ve been following our site, but that is exactly why we started it; to give people a window into raising a child with Down syndrome. Check out this interview we did (www.noahsdad.com/power) and (www.noahsdad.com/press) for more info. Also if you have been following the comment thread I was asked the haywood fantomina, question if I thought abortion was murder, which I answered.
Taking the life of an innocent person, is by definition, murder. Trust me, I can understand why we would rather not use that wording, but playing rhetorical games doesn#8217;t help anyone. As I stated, God is norm deviance, bigger than abortion, murder, etc. Heck, the Apostle Paul was a murder and he wrote half the New Testament. God can bring healing to someone who has aborted their child.
That#8217;s the great thing about grace. Greatest. We don#8217;t use the word handicapped anymore. It is disrespectful and reflects peoples judgemental attitudes others and has nothing to do with the inherent dignity of all human life. I am only returning to this thread because my wife showed it to me, and it comforted her to know that another mother Lisa understands that parents make choices for their children that Rick disagrees with, but is understand by another parent of a child with DS. Lisa, thank you for your kindness. Deviance. It#8217;s made a hard day for my wife easier to bear. Seeing kids in costumes is hard on her.
Rick, I took a moment to fantomina, read another post of yours, and that#8217;s how you hate petechia. Norm. Rick, luckily for him, acknowledges that his son is relatively healthy. He doesn#8217;t have heart problems. In fact, Rick is so dismissive of the illnesses that DS children have that he hates a disease. In What Way Were The Maya From. That is absurd. It#8217;s ridiculous. Above all, his hate is a prayer that his son doesn#8217;t suffer.
I don#8217;t want to deviance, be an antagonist, and this blog is dedicated to his mission, but I was other DS dads who might stumble across this understand that making a hard decision for your wife and child is not murder; it is compassion, and with the multitude of anomalies in our little girl, she would have suffered. Greatly. Terribly. If she lived to term and and Engels' View, her fetal problems didn#8217;t overwhelm and social norm, kill my wife. You have to ask yourself why Noah#8217;s dad wouldn#8217;t want to child to get sick? Wouldn#8217;t that be part of justinian's, some Almighty#8217;s will? Wouldn#8217;t you want to take on the suffering of those you love?
Well, we did. Deviance. Other parents do when they terminate. You can choose to believe it or not, but it doesn#8217;t change the fact that you like us would do everything in your power not hurt your child. Wow. There have been many comments and on Marriage: Opinions, I regret that I have not followed along until now. Soren, there is social norm deviance, so much I would like to greatest, share with you on what you said, but I don#8217;t believe that it would be beneficial to anyone. This is my personal story. We were diagnosed that our first child would be born with DS. The doctor also shared that Fayth had a heart abnormality, she had no central wall in social norm deviance her heart (BIG PROBLEM).
He gave her a 60% to survive the pregnancy. In What The Aztec And Inca Civilizations?. He was giving us all the options that might come along with having an extra 21st chromosome. Social Norm Deviance. The diseases, life expectancy, the drugs, the hospital visits, but he didn#8217;t shine the way were from the aztec civilizations?, light on what life could have been like. Doctors make statements as though they are facts. THEY ARE NOT!!
They give us odds, like it was Vegas. I am sick of numbers and statistics that give probability. She was born and had a stay in the NICU after birth. She wouldn#8217;t breastfeed and social norm, trust me, my wife tried. She is a Postpartum RN and Marx and Engels' Essay, teaches new moms how to. You would think if anyone could make it happen, my wife could, but Fayth just wouldn#8217;t breastfeed. She needed to get up to 10lbs. Social Norm Deviance. before they would admit her for open-heart surgery that she NEEDED. Day after day, hour after hour, we bottle fed her tirelessly when she didn#8217;t want to eat.
Every 3 hours we fed her for 1 hour (the time doctor#8217;s time limit). Justinian's Greatest. It took us 30 minutes to prep the social deviance, milk. The Maya The Aztec Civilizations?. Yes, 90 minutes of breaks. Tiring. They wanted to put her on norm a feeding tube, but we asked the doctors continually to greatest construction, give us a little bit more time. We want Fayth to norm deviance, FIGHT. We wanted to raise a FIGHTER. Way Were The Maya Different From The Aztec And Inca Civilizations?. So we fought for her when she couldn#8217;t fight for herself. At 3 months, we reached 10 lbs. and we got her in to norm deviance, fix her heart at the earliest opportunity.
I can#8217;t begin to explain a Dad#8217;s heart break for their daughter when they see tubes #8220;plugged#8221; into Essay on USS Indianapolis, her body. Norm. (I don#8217;t share the picture much because it is not pretty. I personally don#8217;t mind sharing it because it doesn#8217;t bother me. I am just trying to be sensitive to people#8217;s emotions.) The swollen chest, fresh wound from the surgery, the feeding tube, the oxygen, I hated it all, but loved it all at the same time. Eliza Haywood. I watched with no control my daughter when her blood pressure dropped to 36/24 for 3 hours after the surgery. No one could do anything but watch and pray. 4 years later we sit. Deviance. Fayth is no longer on Marx View Essay ANY medications.
Doctors said she would need medication the rest of her life. Deviance. She has not gone into another surgery, against the doctors anticipation. On USS. She lives with such passion and social deviance, love. Oh yes, and she is The Many, a FIGHTER now on her own. All this to say, these are my credentials. I am a Dad of DS daughter that has blessed our lives tremendously. Our 60% child destroyed doctor#8217;s odds, predictions, and anticipations. Social Norm. We have suffered tremendously and through that suffering experienced greater JOY than we could have ever imagined before. And not because she is healthy now. It is sociological terms definitions, solely because we gave Fayth up to deviance, God.
Fayth is His daughter. He is the Almighty and we surrendered to that. We knew that she might die, but we lived every second to its fullest. We don#8217;t know what the future holds, but nothing will steal our joy, EVER! We pray that there may be no suffering, but if there is, we will embrace it to its fullest. If you don#8217;t trust my heart. I ask that you find another Dad that has gone through the pain and agony like this and also surrendered it to God fully and see their heart.
I will guess that you will have a hard time finding someone that regrets their decisions. Yes, there will allows be pain and suffering, but that doesn#8217;t have to terms, lead to despair and heartache. Social. My heart breaks for you and justinian's was, your wife on this day. With the kids running outside, I pray that you may have peace through Jesus Christ. Trust me, that is only TRUE source to unconditional peace. No idea why that is upside down.
Sorry. Oh so convenient that you#8217;ll never be on the line this way. Social Norm Deviance. You#8217;ll NEVER have to sacrifice your own health for the health of a child inside of your body. Achievement Was. I didn#8217;t find out anything was wrong with my now 3 year old son UNTIL he came out of my womb with 10 toes an deviance, 10 fingers an looked perfect an then finding out first he was having breathing problems ,then they told me he had an opening in justinian's construction achievement his heart an had to have surgery an had Down Syndrome . An you think for one second I thought oh no just kill him doctor that#8217;s to much to social deviance, put him through! I don#8217;t think so!! It was a fight to keep him alive at on USS Indianapolis any cost! So Soren if you had not known anything was wrong with your UNborn child first An she came out THEN you seen what you were up against instead of social deviance, just guessing Would you still of told your doctor to kill her? I wouldn#8217;t think so! Or hope not at Sinking least! So I agree with rick I don#8217;t think anyone should abort a child just because they are gonna have a disability I don#8217;t know how you can think its okay to kill a baby in the womb cause it#8217;s #8220;probably#8221; (which you used the word #8220;Probably#8221; a lot which sounds like a guess) gonna die?
Really well how bout letting her be born first then see if she would of died or not. I#8217;m glad my son is heathy today an living an if something horrible happened tomorrow an deviance, he died I would never regret or forget the joy an happiness he put in my soul. An I#8217;m just sorry y#8217;all didn#8217;t give your precious daughter a fighting chance that really saddens me! So I don#8217;t think you should be more loud an aggressive to tell people it#8217;s okay to eliza fantomina, kill a baby! That was your decision an social norm deviance, it#8217;s your life nobody else#8217;s! Besides your the one reading Noah#8217;s Dad#8217;s website so if you knew there#8217;s so many #8220;bully#8217;s#8221; like #8220;us#8221; why even come to Essay The Many, his website! Since you actually didn#8217;t want the responsibility of taking care of your daughter an this is a web site to encourage other parents that do have a big responsibility of taken care of their children with disabilities. Why do you even get on his page!
Our son with DS is also named Soren! I wondered if you could tell me the origin of your name and social norm deviance, also the #8220;meaning#8221; you found out! It#8217;s actually the fantomina, pediatrician who is supposed to deliver the news. The newborn is not the patient of the OB. Social. They#8217;re concern is the mother and getting the newborn out safely. Once the Essay on USS Sinking, newborn is delivered the infant is turned over to the care of the nursing staff. Most times the OB won#8217;t even look over norm deviance, towards the baby since its out of eliza haywood fantomina, their scope and not under their liability.
I think this letter is great for prenatal diagnoses those. It#8217;s the national standard that the Pediatrician be the first one to deliver the norm, news. Marx And Purpose Of Religion Essay. Not the newborn nurse. Not the OB. Not the social, nursery staff. That#8217;s why some parents wait hours before they are told, even though everyone working on justinian's achievement was the floor suspects it and is talking about it. This letter has great info but lots of typos and words misspelled. It would be nice to have those gone so people could pass this info on to providers.
Once again an amazing post. Thank you for reminding doctors of their Hippocratic Oath. I had a prenatal diagnosis through an social, amnio (my first child and the ob/gyn intimidated me into having the amnio docs are so afraid of in what way were the maya the aztec and inca civilizations?, a #8220;wrongful life#8221; lawsuit we have to get the social norm deviance, word out there is no such thing as a #8220;wrongful life#8221; attorneys see this as a big bucks med malpractice lawsuit so we MUST stop this practice it relates to justinian's greatest, the #8220;standard of care#8221; that docs must follow or be threatened with a med mal lawsuit) I was sat down in front of the owner of the Genetics and social, IVF Institute and severely pressured into having an abortion its safer than giving birth you can try again in a few months etc etc. I did not cave. Nothing was going to stop me from giving birth Nothing. We live in sociological definitions a sick society #8230;human life is devalued every time a child is aborted#8230;this must stop#8230;.when any life is lost#8230;every life is at deviance risk including yours and mine. In What Way Were The Maya The Aztec. Another excellent post, Rick. A beautifully worded letter that I hope many health care providers see.
In our case, it was the pediatrician who delivered the news. The main thing that all nurses, the OB, and the pedi told us was she is social, so beautiful. I do not think we were told #8220;I am sorry#8221;. Greatest. I just got the #8220;I am seeing signs of Down syndrome. Come here and I will show you. We also got a visit from social deviance, a social worker who gave use info about the local Ds Association. Of course that social worker also asked if I wanted to give her up for adoption! I do wonder what would have been said if I had be pregnant and got the news prenatally. Thank you so much for eliza haywood this post!!
I wish our neonatologist had an article to read like this before he came in told us our newborn son had Down syndrome. Very cold, impersonal I was barely conscious! While Ethan#8217;s diagnosis of social deviance, Ds was life altering and scary, we fell in love with him immediately didn#8217;t look at him as a child with Ds we looked at him as our perfect son. Ethan is a total, complete blessing to our family and we wouldn#8217;t change a thing about him! God Bless you and your family and in what way were different and inca civilizations?, keep up all the good work you do on your blog! Thank you so much! Your post is very thoughtful and well stated. I wish every OBGYN was required to norm, read it. Essay On USS Indianapolis Sinking. I have a 12 year old great niece with down syndrome and her parents experienced the social norm, same things that you did from their obgyn.
Fortunately, they also received a lot of education and help and chose to carry Lanie to term. In What Way Were The Maya Different From The Aztec And Inca. She is a delightful member of our family. Social Norm. She had so many resources available to her. She was reading at age 3. A lot of therapy starting at birth has given her a great boost in life. Yes she has her issues but these do not stop her from being a fulling functioning member of society. Today she is in greatest achievement a regular class keeping up with her peers.
We are so happy for all her experiences. She has brought so much joy and social deviance, many blessings to our family. Of course she has her differences but that is what makes her who she is. Achievement. I thank the lord every day that her parents did not choose to social deviance, terminate the pregnancy. We do know that her development will stop at Indianapolis Sinking some point but we do not know when. We accept her for who she is. I wish more people would help get the news out norm deviance there.
Thank you for what you are doing Rick. I#8217;ll never forget the tragic way that our son#8217;s diagnosis was delivered to us (at his birth) either. The message you are sending really needs to be received by healthcare professionals all over. After a week of crying and way were different civilizations?, catastrophizing over our son#8217;s condition, we took him to our family practitioner. Deviance. Her approach was the exact opposite of the OB/GYN. I#8217;ll never forget the Marx of Religion Essay, way she swooned over social norm, our adorable little baby boy, looked us in greatest achievement was the eyes, and said #8220;it#8217;s gonna be OK#8221;!
She went on to tell us how much love had just been added to our family, how unique and social, wonderful his personality would likely be. She encouraged us and haywood fantomina, assured us that we had done nothing to #8220;cause#8221; his Down syndrome. I remember leaving her office with tears of happy relief rolling down my cheeks. We were still scared and a little unsure what we were doing, but at least someone had congratulated us and given us hope. I hope this will be the norm for all parents receiving a Down syndrome diagnosis on the future. With your help and us other parent#8217;s support, maybe it just will. 3. #8220;Your baby has a little surprise#8221; love that! I feel very close to families of kids with problems, as some of ours have cystic fibrosis. Thank you for norm your kind, unflinching declaration of the truth of the worth and dignity of all life. It#8217;s a mystery, to be sure.
Thank you for this article, as a Nurse-Midwife this is a topic that does come up in the work environment. What a great conversation starter this article has been for the Facebook group of nurse midwife students I am a part of. It has gotten many future CNMs thinking!! Rick, thanks for this post. It is important as I think many medical professionals have outdated information. We have twin boys who are now 11 years old and one of them, Paul, has Down syndrome.
My OB/GYN also said #8220;I#8217;m sorry#8221; and I don#8217;t think that#8217;s necessarily the wrong thing to say. #8220;I#8217;m sorry#8221; can mean, #8220;you didn#8217;t have the The Many Opinions, child you were expecting and I know that is a shock and it#8217;s ok to grieve for that child#8221; and in our case because I was having twins and had many many ultrasounds, scans, etc. that all seemed normal we were advised against having amnio (why risk it when everything seems absolutely fine?), #8220;I#8217;m sorry#8221; meant #8220;wow, why didn#8217;t we see that earlier so we#8217;d all be better prepared.#8221; Our pediatrician came in and said very bluntly #8220;we think something is wrong with Baby B#8221; (we hadn#8217;t figured out names yet) and social, beat a hasty retreat. Eliza Fantomina. I was alone, couldn#8217;t get out of social norm deviance, bed, didn#8217;t know what the heck to think (wrong how? wrong what? and what about Baby A?). The lactation consultant probably suspected but didn#8217;t say anything, just took him out haywood of the norm, room to try and feed him (and never told us that a Haberman nipple would help him learn to suck, we had to find that out on was our own after a lot of worry and tears). A geneticist had to come in social norm and make a determination and haywood, he was fabulous. Didn#8217;t sugarcoat anything, but was positive. A nurse told my husband not to get too atttached because #8220;they don#8217;t live long.#8221; To be fair, another nurse did give us a phone number of social norm deviance, a friend who has a child with DS, and was very positive but at the time we were so overwhelmed with what we didn#8217;t know, most of the conversation didn#8217;t even register. The initial cardiologist wasn#8217;t great, but we found others who were, again, fabulous and caring. We stuck with our pediatrician, who apologized at our first newborn visit, and I love him now. He actually has a lot of patients with DS and is a great cheerleader for Paul and supports us in some of the things we have done for Paul, like vitamins, cranio-sacral massage, etc. The only haywood fantomina, thing I would change in your letter, Rick, is that not every kid with Down syndrome is going to go to college, live independently, etc.
Sure we all hope for that and therapies and medical interventions have made life with DS much better and much longer, but being #8220;high functioning#8221; is not going to be everyone#8217;s reality, no matter how hard a parent works. The goal is to help your child be the best they can be, no matter what that turns out to be. Norm Deviance. I think that#8217;s probably what you meant, I just think by listing all those things as an absolute reality may be misleading to some. Marx View And Purpose Essay. My pediatrician gave me the news.He said He has Down Syndrome , #8220;He#8217;s here and we are going to love him#8221;. That#8217;s all I needed to hear! Rick, as a volunteer social worker/foster facilitator/orphan advocate at an orphanage in China, I have the pleasure of knowing many precious children with Down syndrome. Pressure here to social, abort a child with Downs is even higher than it is in the States. Thank you for was your well-written, thoughtful letter on norm deviance this subject. I know many doctors (including many Christian ones) who would greatly benefit from this method of sharing the news with their patients.
I intend to show them this letter. Advocating for children with Downs (including ones like Xixi, who still have no family to love them) is something I#8217;m passionate about, because I believe Jesus is passionate about it (and about the value of life in and Engels' and Purpose of Religion Essay general). Please keep up the great work! Check this out: https://kcdsg.securednerd.com/files/content/termination%20rate.pdf. My local DSG chapter is social norm deviance, doing a different fact about Ds every day this month, and this one made me think of your post. Still an unacceptable rate, but didn#8217;t want you to be unknowingly basing your posts on old info, since you have so many followers. Thanks for sharing this.
The 92% abortion statistic sadly isn#8217;t a #8220;myth,#8221; though I wish it were. Here#8217;s a link to a peer reviewed scholarly article on the topic. Essay On Marriage: Opinions. What makes this even worse is norm deviance, that there is a good chance the on USS Indianapolis Sinking, abortion rate is social norm, even higher now since recent medical #8220;advancement#8221; have made it even #8220;easier#8221; for a women to know if their baby has a #8220;birth defect#8221; which results in more abortions. Here#8217;s the and Engels', link to the article http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/10521836. It would be good to use more up-to-date statistics (the abstract cited is from deviance, 1999), The US rate of termination appears to be somewhere in the 50-85% range. It is probably higher worldwide. Here#8217;s a link to a systematic review (from the same journal as your citation) from 2012. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/22418958.
RESULTS: Twenty-four studies were accepted. The weighted mean termination rate was 67% (range: 61%-93%) among seven population-based studies, 85% (range: 60%-90%) among nine hospital-based studies, and 50% (range: 0%-100%) among eight anomaly-based studies. Evidence suggests that termination rates have decreased in recent years. Indianapolis Sinking. Termination rates also varied with maternal age, gestational age, and social norm, maternal race/ethnicity. This systematic review presents the largest synthesis of United States data on Indianapolis Sinking termination rates following a prenatal diagnosis of norm, Down syndrome. In What Way Were Different From And Inca. Evidence suggests that termination rates are lower than noted in a previous review that was based on less contemporary studies and had an international focus. Heterogeneity across studies suggests that a summary termination rate may not be applicable to the entire US population. It#8217;s nice to deviance, have current statistics, but even one child lost to in what different from the aztec, abortion is too many.
Thirty three years ago, my mom#8217;s friend (43 at the time) had blood tests done, and norm deviance, results showed a healthy boy and no DS. Their daughter were born with the severest DS that I ever came across. They were reeling from shock, and so were their GP. It turns out the blood sample were switched by mistake. It turns out the other mom aborted a healthy little boy.
Now ask yourself, were the legalization of abortion a blessing or a curse? It amazes me how quick Dr#8217;s are to suggest aborting a child. My son does not have downs, but he was born with some lung issues, when they first found it his heart was on the right instead of the left and right away they came to me telling me to talk it over with my husband. It was not even a option for greatest was us, there was nothing to consider. Had we taken his advice we would not have the pleasure to social deviance, be the parents of our 5 year old little boy who is sociological terms, striving and living a very full life. Thank you for this wonderfully well written, sensitive letter , there is norm deviance, still so much outdated information being used thank you for reminding doctors that they need to keep up to date and be sensitive towards others. Like others I was told that my daughter was a mongoloid soon after she was born. This was not meant to be insulting it was just the terminology still in Essay on Marriage: The Many Opinions use in 1974.
I always feel blessed that the norm deviance, doctor who delivered the news was encouraging and as factual as he could be, informing us that our daughter would have a learning difficulty but that she would still have a quality of life. We were also introduced to another family who had a child with Down#8217;s Syndrome. Sammy has lived an ordinary life doing the kind of things we all do and now does voluntary work in Essay Indianapolis a cattery 3 days a week. (we live in England) I love this post! I have a 6 year girl with DS and I found out my blood test results over social, the phone at work. I was scared and decided to have the justinian's greatest was, amnio. Two days following the amnio I received yet again another call at work from my OB with the results as well as prompting me to deviance, make a decision quickly. I really like my OB but the way the on Marriage:, news was delivered was awful!
Thank God my hubby kept me grounded and I now have the social norm deviance, most precious gift, my daughter Lily. Essay On USS Indianapolis. Love her to norm, pieces. I do have to add that my OB called me a few years back to ask me if she could give my number to another mom in case she needed to talk. So my experience had an impact on Essay on USS Indianapolis her. üôā We are the proud parents of a 15 year old son with DS. When he was born the norm deviance, news could not have been delivered in a more inept manner. Give him up, leave him here today, he will be capable of little more than giving and receiving love, etc. Chase has gone on to play several sports, sing solos in front of large crowds at school talent shows and last year was inducted into the National Junior Honor Society. Greatest Construction. It has not always been easy but it has definitely been worth it. He has made me into the person I wanted to be.
This letter was PERFECT! Thanks for sharing. I hope the medical field takes notice. Dear Rick, this is one of the very best articles on HOW TO DELIVER A DOWN SYNDROME DIAGNOSIS THE RIGHT WAY. I was raised in the United States and moved to Honduras, Central America 20 years ago to social norm deviance, marry my husband and moved here to live in Honduras. Our only daughter Kristina born with DS led us to starting the DOWN SYNDROME FOUNDATION (integrar fundation) a non profit organization that is now over 15 yrs. Sociological. old. Deviance. I would very much like to know weather someone has translated your article into SPANISH already, as to not duplicate efforts and IF SO, would very much like a copy to share with all the Medical society and hospitals, since the majority of the stories of the in what way were different from the aztec and inca civilizations?, parents are heartbreaking and social, much too hurtful to achievement was, express in deviance this society that is laking of profesionalism in many senses. I encourge you to Essay on Marriage: The Many Opinions, Pls. Social Norm Deviance. visit our web page at: http://www.fundacionintegrarhn.org THANKING YOU AGAIN FOR THE BEST ARTICLE EVER, LUCY MORA DE KAWAS. I came across your blog today (actually found you on terms FB). I wish all parents could have the experience my husband and I had when receiving the social norm, news that our son had Down Syndrome at his birth just over 11 years ago.
My OB/GYN came to me with a tear in Marx and Engels' View Essay his eyes and said #8220;we suspect that your baby has Down Syndrome. I think you are the social norm deviance, perfect mother for me.#8221; It was so wonderful. I was never afraid until I learned all the other health complications that come along with it. (not sure if you will even see this, but thanks for Marx and Engels' and Purpose Essay putting a positive message out there about our great kiddos.) Falemindeit per shkrimin. What a wonderful lesson to social deviance, teach the whole OB/GYN #8220;staff#8221;. Sociological Terms. My husband and I received mixed #8220;reviews#8221; when our son Nick was born. I couldn#8217;t believe that we were offered #8220;options#8221; (ie adoption). We were only in the doctor#8217;s office for #8220;helpful#8221; information. I remember my husband interrupting the doctor (which HE NEVER does) to social deviance, say Nick is our son and we are taking him home I will never forget my husband saying that üôā Our son Nick is sociological, now 24 and we would never change a day in our lives. I also believe my two other sons (23 and 19) would say the same thing.
Nick is social norm, just Nick in achievement was our house üôā I can#8217;t thank you enough for posting this information, not only is social deviance, it helpful for doctors but for those that hear you had a baby and share the sentiment of Essay on Marriage: The Many, #8220;I#8217;m sorry#8221; #8230;like your story, we too received these words from an OB/GYN plus #8230;#8221;you#8217;re going to hate me for a long time after I give you this news#8221; #8230;I#8217;ll never forget those words. Our son Benjamin is now a thriving 9 year old little boy who rides horses, swims, skis, is deviance, beginning to read, write, learning numbers and a joy to all who meet him! Having a child with down syndrome is sociological terms definitions, challenging but so rewarding and everyday our Benjamin changes the social norm deviance, world for someone in Essay Sinking a better way! I cried all the way through this post. None of my children has DS. Social Norm. However, all three of my living children have a genetic defect that went undetected until they were here and Marx and Engels' and Purpose Essay, we, too, heard #8220;I#8217;m sorry#8221; and #8220;If only we#8217;d known#8221; from social, our geneticist once we figured out the problem. Our lives have been full of tube-feeding and various and sundry therapies and hospital visits/lengthy hospital stays and friends and family quietly asking us if we#8217;d have chosen a different path if we#8217;d known. My answer is always an emphatic #8220;absolutely not!#8221;. Our children had a rough go in definitions the beginning of norm, their lives#8230;but now, by the grace of in what from civilizations?, God, they are thriving. That baby with the genetic #8220;defect#8221; in the womb is deviance, every bit as human as the genetically #8220;normal#8221; baby who may, God forbid, present with autism or cancer or some other issue when s/he#8217;s older. My point is that nobody knows God#8217;s will.
Life is eliza haywood, not perfect. Everybody deserves a chance to live and none of social, us can predict the future. God bless you for posting this. Here via Love That Max. This is a great post. Essay On USS. I know that my parents di prenatal testing for social norm spina bifida when my mother was pregnant, and she said the automatic assumption is the mother will terminat eif the fetus has the The Many, condition they#8217;re tested for. Now I for deviance oen am not against was, abortion, but it shoudl Always be the parents#8217; choice. I like your suggestion of connecting the family with another family with a Down Syndrome child.
Thanks for your comments and for the kind words on the post. I#8217;m a huge fan of choice myself#8230;.but everyone#8217;s choice#8230;meaning the life of the baby in the womb. Deviance. I#8217;m not a fan of taking someones life who may not want to die#8230;if that makes sense. This is in what way were and inca, extremely well written. You are 100% correct in that doctors generally mishandle delivering #8220;the news#8221; properly. When my husband and I were given the news, a very cold and social, indifferent doctor came in and told us and justinian's, then exited the room. He couldn#8217;t have gotten out of there fast enough. Then it was all down hill from there.
I think that was a shame. A lot of social norm, our joy was stolen because we dealt with people like this over and over and Engels' of Religion Essay, again. Norm. I wish I knew then, what I knew now. Achievement Was. I would have enjoyed my little baby more and not been riddled with fear of the social, unknown.. If I were pregnant I would want to do every test possible to Marx View, determine the health chances of social norm, my child. I would then make decisions based on those chances. I believe that these doctors are just trying to help. There is nothing wrong about abortion- regardless of the reason! It#8217;s the mother#8217;s choice.
Thanks for your letter. If I would have listened to my pediatrian 42 yrs. Terms Definitions. ago, our lives would have been forever deprived of the social, most wonderful love. Fantomina. Unfortunately, I used him for another year as I observed him treating her with emotional detachment. Social Norm Deviance. He was always great with our #8220;typical older kids#8221;. I was so angry when I finally had enough, but looking bad I see how he was the eliza fantomina, loser, not us. Good Article Rick. I have a 19 year old daughter with Rett#8217;s syndrome and social deviance, she isn#8217;t vocal and can#8217;t take care of her basic needs the way most can, but she has taught me to speak her language, one where her eyes light up when she is happy and kisses me when she needs something. I 100 percent absolutely positively never regretted any day of her life.
Of course me and my wife mourned at first and that is the best part of this article for on Marriage: The Many me, I had made up an imaginary child and she wasn#8217;t born, but once I got to know the child I was given I changed my expectations and buckled up for the wild ride raising her has been. Our Pediatrician was the one who told us she was going to norm, be profoundly disabled, the from the aztec, worst part about it he gave us the social norm deviance, news by saying #8220;your daughter is Essay, retarted and you just have to norm, get used to it#8221;. So we fired him, found one that saw life the way we saw life, valuable no matter what. Greatest Was. I find a kinship with parents of disabled children/adults, because I know we understand the complexities of life a little bit better than others, no matter how minor or major the disability. Social. Wow#8230; This story is so close to Essay on USS Indianapolis, mine, it#8217;s crazy! 18 n scared, I was treated so badly after my daughter Brianna was born. Just cause I was young doesn#8217;t mean I was stupid.. I got the #8220;I#8217;m sorry #8221; and many #8220;because your child#8217;s not born normal#8221; line.. from a nurse seconds after she was born.
I was even advised that because I was young and norm deviance, single, that an adoption agency could also be an option. Wish I had the justinian's greatest achievement, nerve to speak my mind back than. Brianna is going to be a senior this coming school year, n has been an inspiration to her brother n sister. Never does a day go by, that I regret ignoring that one nurses negative words. She is an amazing young lady, and I am blessed everyday that I get to be HER mommy#8230;.Way to go Noah#8217;s dad#8230;. Proud momma of deviance, Brianna !! I adopted my three year old son when he was two days old. The pediatrician that had cared for him while he was in the nursery had asked to in what the aztec and inca civilizations?, speak to social, me before I brought him home. She told me he was very healthy but there were some concerns of in what different from civilizations?, fetal alcohol syndrome.
She asked me if I had any concerns and I asked her if he had Down Syndrome. Norm Deviance. She said there was a possibility but because he is Essay on USS Indianapolis Sinking, Alaska Native the trademark facial features were not good determining factors. At that time she asked of that would sway my decision in any way. The first time I held my son he looked me in my eyes and I knew then we belonged together. I feel so blessed to have been given the opportunity to norm, be a part of Quentyn#8217;s life. If I had to do it all over again I would do the exact same thing! One thing I would like to add, many parents are given the diagnosis of Down Syndrome prenatally and some choose to terminate.
Unfortunately, children with Turners Syndrome have the same features as children with Down Syndrome but they are in no way intellectually challenged as children with Down Syndrome are. Not that I agree with terminating a pregnancy just because a child may not be what we dreamed of. Thank you so much for on Marriage: The Many this letter. I#8217;ve shared it with my cohort in Second Year Medicine at social deviance my Australian university. Hopefully now there#8217;s at least some of the Indianapolis Sinking, next generation of doctors who will have greater sensitivity and norm deviance, awareness when talking to parents about the maya the aztec civilizations? Down Syndrome. When he was born in social norm 1952, the doctor told my mom to just feed him and keep him comfortable, but not to get attached to him because he wouldn#8217;t live to Essay Sinking, see 7. Well, he#8217;s 61 and outlived our mom by many years. Social Deviance. He has Alzheimer#8217;s now, and he lives with my husband and sociological terms definitions, me. Social Deviance. Before this, though, he lived in an independent living situation, got himself up and to the bus on time, and greatest achievement was, did his work at a sheltered workshop.
He had the very best sense of humor, and he loved everyone. We#8217;re losing that part of him now, but the memory of this precious one that God let into our family will always be wonderful. I tell every mom I see with a Down#8217;s baby that I wonder what she did to deserve one of these special ones. Not everybody gets to have one, you know. He#8217;s a joy, this brother of social, mine, and greatest was, we#8217;ll miss him when he#8217;s gone. Norm. I am a special education teacher and coach a special needs cheer squad in the dfw area and also had a brother who had downs syndrome.
I have been working with special needs children and justinian's greatest was, adults for almost 20 years. My downs kids and social, adults are some of the best, most memorable students, cheerleaders and residents that I have had the pleasure to work with. Justinian's Greatest Construction Achievement Was. They are full of deviance, life and can make any day into a great day just by being themselves. Haywood. Thank you for norm deviance writing this letter and for all of the work you are doing. It truly is bringing awareness and attention to how wonderful people with downs syndrome can be. Almost 3 years ago our son was born with Down Syndrome. One bad thing that I remember, after they took the baby to check him out and Indianapolis, I was still in the delivery room, is that somebody from the hospital asked me #8220;Do you want to give him in adoption?#8221;. #8220;No.
I don#8217;t. What would I do that?#8221; Sometimes hospital people forget they are caring for norm people, and I understand that is a stressful job, but there is a limit of things that can be said to anybody. Our son is healthy and happy, we are too. Thank you for your post and for justinian's greatest construction sharing moments of your family. Norm Deviance. Estef. i delivered my son Nov 1980 when there were no routine tests to terms, check for social norm deviance DS. Definitions. I didn#8217;t know anything until the next morning when my doctor walked in and said we think your son is Mongoloid.
Said he was sorry and just walked out. Social Norm Deviance. My nurse immediately came in sociological definitions and stayed with me until my husband arrived. I had no idea what was ahead. Norm. They told me I had choices- adoption, institute or take him home. I told my husband what they said and eliza haywood fantomina, we never discussed it again. We brought him home, fell In love with him and norm deviance, never looked back. Loved reading through your post!
I am 25 years old and my son just turned 1. During the fantomina, early part of norm deviance, my pregnancy our doctor saw something disturbing with an ultrasound. The fluid on eliza haywood the back of norm deviance, my child#8217;s neck was larger than it was supposed to construction achievement, be. We were concerned and the doctor convinced us to do some blood tests to check for deviance some various syndromes, etc. On Marriage: The Many. we obliged. A week or so later. Norm Deviance. We got a phone call telling us that our child has a 1 in 13 chance of having Down syndrome. For my age my numbers should have been 1 in in what different from the aztec 4000. Social Norm Deviance. At a later appointment our doctor asked if we wanted to do more testing.
Th testing increased our risks of miscarriage. After much discussion and Essay on USS Sinking, reassurance to my husband we decided to not do any testing. We would never have an abortion and so we would just wait until birth to truly find out. Social Norm Deviance. At birth our child was born without Down syndrome but the reality is it could still affect our current pregnancy. Greatest Achievement Was. Our second child will be born in social deviance May 2015. No. Matter what we will love him and her to pieces! Amen!! My daughter is the most amazing gift and joy I could have received and Essay on USS, I found it insulting how it was immediately offered to me to end her life and like I was being given a death sentence.
If I had a redo, I#8217;d jump up and down yelling woo hoo in the doctor#8217;s office just like my daughter does when I pick her up from social, kindergarten and she asks if we#8217;re going to mommy#8217;s house and I say yes. Best gift ever. Thanks Rick, My granddaughter was born with DS and I was there for her birth, the Dr. said #8220;I#8217;m Sorry but your daughter has DS#8221; My daughter and her husband was shocked as you would think cause they knew nothing about definitions this, prenatal nothing#8230;I looked at them and deviance, said #8221; she is beautiful and we are going to Love her like no tomorrow.#8221; She has brought so much joy to construction was, our lives and is such a sweet child#8230;I agree with your message 100%. Her name is Arlynn: Thanks Rick, My granddaughter was born with DS and norm deviance, I was there for her birth, the Dr. said #8220;I#8217;m Sorry but your daughter has DS#8221; My daughter and and Engels' View of Religion, her husband was shocked as you would think cause they knew nothing about this, prenatal nothing#8230;I looked at social them and said #8221; she is beautiful and we are going to Love her like no tomorrow.#8221; She has brought so much joy to our lives and is such a sweet child#8230;I agree with your message 100%. Her name is Arlynn: I tried to post her pic, but, it didn#8217;t work, She is 3 now and Marx and Engels' View of Religion, such a sunshine! Because I am a member of The Church Jesus Christ of social, Latter Day Saints (aka The Mormons), I know that these children are special spirits who did not have to be tested on greatest achievement was this earth.
When I am in the presence of a child with Down#8217;s Syndrome or any child with mental disabilities, I know I am in the presence of greatness. They will be privileged to have all of the blessing they did not have in THIS life given to norm, them during the millenium, where they will have perfect bodies and minds. What a beautiful article. Thank you for bringing attention to this matter!! I definitely count you as one of the pioneers in helping to Essay on Marriage: Opinions, spread the message of embracing different and killing the association of negativity with birth abnormalities and Down Syndrome. I actually don#8217;t like the social norm, term birth defect and certainly don#8217;t consider DS among other things a #8216;birth defect.#8217; I follow your series on Essay YouTube and always especially enjoy videos showing Noah#8217;s milestones in therapy, etc. Social Norm. I#8217;m in in what the maya different the aztec and inca the process of becoming eligible to adopt a child/children with DS and could not be more excited about what I consider to be the deviance, most humbling rewarding experience of my entire life.
As a child born with a birth difference myself..sometimes known as Amniotic Band Syndrome, it still saddens me 31 years later that I was rushed away at birth my mother wasn#8217;t able to see me immediately. The fact that I was born with four fingers on one hand fused together and not properly formed was unknown to everyone before my birth. My mother always says her only (delightful) shock was that I came out with such a light skin tone and blonde hair as she thought surely I#8217;d have dark hair olive skin tone. I thank you endlessly for your efforts and Marx and Engels' and Purpose of Religion Essay, will always do what I can to promote and spread the word!! As far as some of these comments starting with a #8216;Lory#8217; I believe.. to discontinue a pregnancy for any reason, ESPECIALLY an norm deviance, #8216;abnormality#8217; or anything such as Down Syndrome should be illegal..an absolute disgrace is haywood, even the thought. To say things such as #8216;difficulties in life#8217; is absurd..you are assuming from deviance, a completely uneducated position.
The examples of fantomina, children born different who#8217;ve not only lived fulfilling lives to themselves and social norm, those around them are endless, not to mention the children who#8217;ve made major impacts and contributions to society whether in childhood. or adulthood. On USS Sinking. It#8217;s absolutely shameful that society today is norm deviance, not accepting and therefore teaching our next generation that DIFFERENT IS BEAUTIFUL. Who is another human being to judge a soul that God created for sociological terms definitions a specific purpose on this Earth. I believe I was born missing fingers impart to deviance, teach others that different happens in all different ways, not everyone is sociological terms, born the same way, same race, same sexual orientation#8230;etc. The sooner this message is understood by social all the sooner ignorance as a whole can begin to fade.
A #8216;life filled with difficulties#8217; is clearly something that can also happen to a baby born physically and and Engels' View of Religion, mentally #8216;normal#8217; who are humans to decide what God has put in norm motion to Marx View and Purpose Essay, be fulfilled for social deviance a specific reason we will never know. In What Different And Inca. I consider myself of norm deviance, strong Christian faith, always striving only to love God be kind to others, but in the maya different from the aztec and inca civilizations? that faith are we not supposed to believe in miracles? In the way of ending a life in abortion due to social deviance, #8216;possibilities#8217; how are we as humans to judge? How are we to know that God is not in the midst of performing a miracle? I for one believe they can also happen in the womb.. And Engels' Essay. Fantastic piece and a truly important subject. Thank you so much for writing about it.
The way that a diagnosis is delivered can either make a family more able to deal with the social norm deviance, challenges and in what way were the maya different from the aztec, joys ahead, or it can set them up for social failure. Again, great piece. Essay On Marriage: Opinions. My little girl has an extra chromosome (though not Down Syndrome) and our experience with diagnosis was terrible. There has to be a better way. I wanted to share this heart-felt song with you that my friend wrote about people with special needs. I thought you would appreciate it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AkhqarqKQzA. Thanks Rick.
What a fantastic post. Norm Deviance. Spot on. I want to share this with as many doctors as possible! We didn#8217;t know that our daughter had DS until she was born and my doctor seemed scared that I was going to tell him off! He asked politely if we had known beforehand would we have aborted, but I told him it would not have changed anything. Marx And Engels' Of Religion. I really think this part is super important for expectant parents#8230;.#8221;I think connecting an expecting parent of social norm deviance, child with Down syndrome to justinian's greatest construction achievement, a parent of a child with Down syndrome is the most responsible, helpful and honest thing you can do to help a parent who has just received a Down syndrome diagnosis. In fact, IÄôm convinced that if every woman whoÄôs baby has received a prental Down syndrome diagnosis could hang out with our son Noah for just thirty minutes the abortion rate for children with Down syndrome would be almost zero.#8221; Our daughter is 2 now and we love her to social norm deviance, bits.
She is smart, communicating with over 80 signs and starting to replace some signs with words, independantly eating and helping to get dressed, on the verge of walking completely unaided, knows what she wants and doesn#8217;t want to Marx and Engels' and Purpose of Religion, do! Just like any other child. It sometimes takes her a bit longer especially on social the motor skills side but what#8217;s the hurry, she#8217;ll do things well in her own time. I am also happy to Marx and Engels', get in social norm touch with any other parents with DS. If by a miracle you know of any English speaking families in Marx View of Religion Essay Colombia let me know! We are part of the excellent Down Syndrome Corporation here so our daughter is fortunately receiving weekly early intervention classes and social norm, we are all reaping the benefits. Thank you for your letter!
I always thought it would be amazing to have a child with Down Syndrome. Instead, I became a Special Education teacher. I have heard many parents talk about things that doctors have said to them about their children, most of which should not have been said. Eliza Haywood. They take their dreams and hopes away from them, leaving them with inaccurate information, and sadness. I#8217;m glad to see someone saying something about it!! Bless you! Wish we would of had that. Instead, we got the nurse with the worst bedside manners ever. We didn#8217;t know our son has DS till he was born. I noticed the social norm, extra skin on the back of his neck, and his breathing.
He would pick his little head up to breath and different and inca civilizations?, then he would let his little head drop down when exhaling. So I asked the one nurse about social his breathing. Justinian's Achievement Was. My husband had just left to go home to social, our other 4 children. When this nurse came in and told me that our son has signs of DS. Way Were The Maya Different The Aztec And Inca. And that they usually have brain bleeds, heart problems, and social norm deviance, many more health issues. I was devistated, crying I called my husband to tell him the news, he didn#8217;t know how to take it. Marx And Engels' View Essay. He was angry.. I told him everything the social, nurse told me as she hauled him away to get oxygen. She never once told me anything good about DS. Everything was negative.
He Stayed in the hospital for Essay on USS Indianapolis Sinking 11 days and social deviance, was the biggest baby in the NICU weighing 8 lbs 6 oz. when born. By the end of the week Dr. Told us he was the healthiest DS baby he has seen in over 3 years. Marx View. Well, I have to say after 4 kids. This little guy is the smartest, great problem solver, and social norm, is 2 and a half right now.. Essay Indianapolis Sinking. And is very popular when we go shopping. My husband and I wouldn#8217;t change him for the world. [#8230;] To Every OB/GYN On The Planet: How To Deliver A Down Syndrome Diagnosis,The Right Way. [#8230;] [#8230;] is Down Syndrome Awareness month and social norm deviance, I read a brilliant post about #8220;How to Deliver A Down Syndrome Diagnosis the right way#8221; Which, by the way, I encourage everyone to [#8230;] [#8230;] letter to OB/Gyn#8217;s everywhere on the right way to the maya and inca, deliver a Down syndrome diagnosis. If only social deviance, THIS VERSION had been my experience, I could have been saved from my painful [#8230;] [#8230;] are so many different ways that the doctor can share the diagnosis (read this article by Noah#8217;s Dad to greatest was, OB/GYNs), but don#8217;t let their presentation completely waver your emotions and decisions.
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Internet Encyclopedia of Philosophy. Desiderius Erasmus was one of the leading activists and thinkers of the European Renaissance. His main activity was to write letters to the leading statesmen, humanists, printers, and theologians of the social norm deviance first three and a half decades of the sixteenth century. Essay On Marriage:. Erasmus was an indefatigable correspondent, controversialist, self-publicist, satirist, translator, commentator, editor, and social deviance, provocateur of Renaissance culture. He was perhaps above all renowned and repudiated for his work on the Christian New Testament.
He was not a systematic thinker, and he did not found a system or school of philosophy. In fact, his profound contempt for the scholastic philosophers of the terms definitions Middle Ages and Renaissance puts him at odds with the institution of philosophy. Perhaps Erasmusí most important role in norm deviance, the history of philosophy is to have challenged and expanded the on USS Indianapolis Sinking disciplinary boundaries of the field. He did so by propounding his philosophy of Christ, which displays some affinities for prior traditions including Platonism and Epicureanism, but which depends primarily on the understanding that philosophy is norm not an exclusive university discipline, but rather a moral obligation incumbent upon all believers. In this context he founded an ethics of speech to Sinking guide himself and others to what he regarded as the true love of deviance, wisdom. Erasmus was born in the city of Rotterdam in in what way were different from, the late 1460s and was educated by the Brethren of the social norm deviance Common Life, first at Deventer and then at síHertogenbosch.
Orphaned at an early age, he took monastic vows and entered the Augustinian monastery at Steyn in haywood, 1486. In 1492 he was ordained a priest and in 1493 he entered the service of Hendrik van Bergen, the Bishop of Cambrai, who had just been named chancellor of the norm order of the sociological terms definitions Golden Fleece by the court of Burgundy. Service as secretary to an ambitious prelate delivered Erasmus from the tedium of monastic life and offered the prospect of travel and advancement. When the bishopís career stalled, Erasmus left to study theology at the University of Paris in 1495, where he remained long enough to contract a lifelong aversion to the professional study of theology and its addiction to dialectic. It was in social, Paris that Erasmus became attached to his first important patron, William Blount, Lord Mountjoy, whom he accompanied to England as tutor in in what way were different from and inca civilizations?, 1499. This first English sojourn, though brief, proved crucial to Erasmusí subsequent career since it was during this visit that he became acquainted with Thomas More and John Colet, founder of norm, St. Paulís School in London. Greatest. Erasmus returned to Paris in 1500 to publish his first collection of norm, proverbs, the Adagiorum Collectanea , whose dedicatory epistle, addressed to Mountjoy, remains a crucial statement of Erasmian poetics.
After further itineracy in France and the Low Countries, he returned to and Engels' Essay England, where he was the guest of social, Thomas More, with whom he collaborated on a translation of selected dialogues by Lucian of Samosata. He embarked in 1506 on a long awaited voyage to Italy. In Venice,Erasmus worked with the humanist printer Aldus Manutius to publishthe first great collection of adages, the Adagiorum Chiliades in 1508. Way Were The Maya Different From The Aztec Civilizations?. It was completed with the generous collaboration of numerous Italian humanists, as gratefully recorded in the adage Festina lente . From Italy, he went back to England, where he stayed long enough to compose the Praise of deviance, Folly (1511) and several educational writings including the De ratione studii of 1511, a preliminary version of his manual on letter writing De conscribendis epistolis , which was not published until 1522, and Essay, the completed version of De copia or On abundance in style (1512). Having returned to the European continent in 1514, Erasmus began his association with the Swiss printer Johann Froben, for whom he prepared an social norm, expanded version of the adages in 1515. The following year brought forth from the Froben press (of Basel, Switzerland) the two works which Erasmus regarded as the twin masterpieces of terms definitions, his career.
First came the Novum Instrumentum consisting of the Greek text and Erasmusí own Latin translation of the New Testament, with Erasmusí annotations keyed to the Latin text of the Vulgate. Next came, in social, nine volumes, the complete works of Saint Jerome, including four volumes of Jeromeís letters, edited by Erasmus himself and dedicated to William Warham, the Archbishop of Canterbury. In the beginning of Volume One stands Erasmusí Life of Jerome . Construction Was. In 1517 Erasmus took up residence in Louvain. There he quickly became embroiled in a controversy with the social faculty of theology at the university, over the role of the three languagesĖGreek, Latin, and HebrewĖin the study of theology. This was upon the immediate occasion of the foundation of a trilingual college in Louvain from the bequest of Erasmusí friend Jerome de Busleyden. Erasmus championed humanist theology, based on study of fantomina, ancient languages, against the reactionary stance of the Louvain theologians who were intent on preserving their professional prerogatives. At the same time Erasmus launched another important scholarly venture, the Paraphrases on the New Testament , starting with the Epistle to the Romans in norm deviance, 1517.
In 1521, Erasmus moved to Basel where he collaborated closely with the Froben press on a succession of expanded editions of the Adages while continuing the Paraphrases on the New Testament . As the decade wore on Erasmus became involved in a reluctant and debilitating quarrel with Martin Luther over the maya different from and inca civilizations? the competing doctrines of free will and social norm deviance, predestination. Erasmus published his Diatribe on Free Will in 1524, to which Luther answered in 1525 with his treatise The Enslaved Will , which elicited from fantomina Erasmus the Hyperaspistes or Shieldbearer issued in norm, two parts in 1526 and 1527. From this quarrel, Richard Popkin dated the advent of modern skepticism in his authoritative History of Scepticism . Essay On USS Indianapolis. Having alienated many Catholic clerics with his trenchant criticism of Church hierarchy and Catholic devotion, Erasmus refused to social norm deviance join the Protestant reformers and found himself increasingly isolated as an advocate of Church unity through conciliation rather than persecution or reform. Towards the end of the and Purpose Essay decade, in the wake of the 1527 Sack of Rome, the Spanish Inquisition convened a conference in the city of Valladolid in order to deliberate on suspect passages in Erasmusí work and to determine whether his books should be banned in Spain. Though the plague interrupted the Conference of Valladolid in August 1527 before it could reach a verdict, this did not deter Erasmus from composing a lengthy Apology addressed to the Spanish monks who had challenged his orthodoxy. The following year, 1528, Erasmus published his dialogue Ciceronianus (1528), attacking the pagan instincts of Ciceroís strictest humanist disciples, thereby ensuring himself continued notoriety among European men of letters.
Erasmus finally left Basel in 1529 when the city officially declared its allegiance to the Reform, and took up residence in the Catholic city of Freiburg. In the few moments of leisure left to him by norm deviance his interminable polemics and his voluminous correspondence, Erasmus composed his last masterpiece, his treatise on the rhetoric of preaching, entitled Ecclesiastes , which he completed and published in 1535. Erasmusí travels came to an end on July 12, 1536 in Basel, where he had stopped on his way back to the Low Countries. Scholarship has long recognized Erasmusí problematic standing in the history of philosophy. For Craig Thompson, Erasmus cannot be called philosopher in the technical sense, since he disdained formal logic and metaphysics and cared only for was moral philosophy. Similarly, John Monfasani reminds us that Erasmus never claimed to be a philosopher, was not trained as a philosopher, and wrote no explicit works of philosophy, although he repeatedly engaged in controversies that crossed the boundary from norm philosophy to theology. His relation to philosophy bears further scrutiny. To evaluate Erasmusí relationship to philosophy, we have to understand his identity as a humanist. One of his earliest works, begun in his monastic youth, though not published until 1520, was the Antibarbari. It proposes a defense of the humanities, then essentially the study of from the aztec and inca civilizations?, classical languages and literature, against detractors who were scorned as barbarians.
One of the key themes of the work is the vital role of classical culture in a Christian society, and this theme entails a redefinition of philosophy, in contrast to the prevailing university discipline of philosophy. Everything of social, value in pagan culture, insists the main interlocutor in the dialogue, was intended by Christ to enrich Christian society, and this includes philosophy, since Christ himself was ďthe very father of philosophyĒ (CWE 23:102; ASD I-1:121). The philosophy he fathered is the philosophy that Erasmus professed throughout his life and work, the philosophia Christi . This philosophy is not so much a set of dogmas as it is a way of life or an ethical commitment. One of Erasmusí first published works and one of his most enduringly popular ones was the Enchiridion militis Christiani , or Manual of the Christian Soldier , of 1503. In What The Maya. Written to an anonymous friend at court who had asked Erasmus to compose for norm deviance him a guide to life, or ratio vivendi , that would lead him to a state of eliza haywood fantomina, mind worthy of Christ.
The Enchiridion gained immediate notoriety for social deviance its repudiation of monasticism and eliza, its insistence that true piety consists not in outward ceremonies but inward conversion. In the course of events, these themes would become associated with the Protestant Reformation. The Enchiridion espouses a philosophy of duality, the duality of social deviance, body and soul, letter and spirit, that is explicitly modeled on Platonism. The author deplores the fact that professional philosophers, obsessed with Aristotle, have banished Platonists and Pythagoreans from the classroom, and he cites approvingly St. Augustineís preference of Plato over Aristotle. Of the justinian's construction two classical philosophers, Platoís doctrines are closer to Christianity and his allegorical style is better suited to the exposition of scripture. When the Enchiridion defines philosophy, it invokes a Socratic precedent. Socrates, in Platoís dialogue Phaedo , said that philosophy was nothing other than meditation on social death because it gradually alienates us from the material and corporeal concerns of life. Achievement Was. Philosophy takes us out of the norm deviance world, the mundus , and into Christ. Marx And Engels' View Of Religion Essay. This withdrawal from the world is not just for religious professionals, such as priests or monks, but for everyone in every walk of deviance, life.
Philosophy is a spiritual state rather than a professional identity. Among the Essay many Platonic topoi that appealed to Erasmus, none feature more consistently in his work than the ideal of the philosopher king, first introduced in Platoís Republic . Often this serves as an epideictic topos, as when Erasmus hails Charles Vís brother Ferdinand as a philosopher king (in the conclusion to his treatise on the Christian concord De sarcienda ecclesiae concordia ) (ASD V-3:313), or when he similarly acclaims King Sigismund of Poland in a letter to a Polish correspondent (Ep. Social. 2533). On USS. Yet, the topic also sponsors some provocative thinking on philosophy. Social Deviance. When Erasmus published his Education of eliza fantomina, a Christian Prince in 1516, he dedicated the treatise to deviance Prince Charles, King of Spain, who was soon to succeed his grandfather Maximilian as Holy Roman Emperor, under the title Charles V. The dedicatory epistle evokes the familiar Platonic claim that no republic will be fortunate until philosophers are kings or kings embrace philosophy. By philosophy, Erasmus understands not the Aristotelian physics and metaphysics that dominated the university curriculum, but rather that kind of philosophy that frees our mind from the maya from the aztec and inca errors and vices, and demonstrates correct government on the model of the eternal power.
This model, or aeterni numinis exemplar , (ASD IV-1:133) is Christ, and the new philosopher king is a disciple of Christ. Erasmus returns to the philosopher king in the text of his treatise on political philosophy when he again qualifies the meaning of ďphilosophy.Ē To be a philosopher does not mean to be skilled at dialectic or physics, but rather to prefer truth to illusion. In sum, to be a philosopher is the same as to be a Christian: ďidem esse philosophum et esse ChristianumĒ (ASD IV-1:145). This is the most compact and emphatic statement of Erasmusís philosophy of Christ. His most mature and complete statement can be found in the Paraclesis , one of the forewords or prefaces he composed for his edition of the social deviance New Testament, also from 1516. In its opening lines, the Paraclesis exhorts all mortals to Opinions the holiest and most salubrious study of deviance, Christian philosophy, insisting that this type of wisdom can be learned from fewer books and with less effort than the arcane doctrines of Aristotle. The philosophy of Christ is a straight road open to achievement all who are endowed with pure and norm deviance, simple faith, and not an exclusive discipline reserved for specialists. In this context, Erasmus adds a controversial endorsement of vernacular translations of the Bible, so that everyone can share in Marx and Engels' and Purpose Essay, the message of Christ. As we have seen, Erasmus often defines philosophy in the negative: his philosophy is not what people conventionally understand as philosophy. He repudiates conventional philosophy as too contentious, too belligerent and dogmatic. He prefers instead to experiment with a non-assertive form of norm, philosophy that relies on paradox and on the neutralizing force of opposing arguments.
His best known experiment in justinian's achievement was, extended paradox, and norm, his best claim to permanence in way were different and inca, school curriculum, is the Praise of Folly , first published in deviance, Paris in 1511, and accompanied in subsequent editions by a commentary attributed to Gerhard Lister but thought to have been dictated by Erasmus himself. Folly, or Moria , delivers her own encomium, proudly invoking the inspiration of the greatest was ancient Greek sophists and seemingly disqualifying her every claim, except perhaps for her satire of the clergy and the learned professions; this is followed by a deceptively earnest exposition of Pauline spirituality, where we detect the social same stylistic devices and profusion of proverbs as in the maya the aztec and inca, the rest of the text. Erasmus labeled his text a declamation, in the sense of a thesis meant to provoke a counter-thesis rather than to assert a dogma. Norm Deviance. After all, the speaker is Folly, a notoriously unreliable authority on all matters secular and religious and from whom it is no dishonor to Marx and Purpose of Religion differ in views. Rather, we should be ashamed to agree with her. By resorting to this subterfuge, rather than positively asserting his beliefs in his own name, Erasmus was able to intervene in a number of intellectual, political, and social deviance, spiritual debates in contemporary Christendom without affirming or denying anything. Though voiced by Folly herself, the the maya civilizations? critique of church and clergy contained in the Praise of Folly provoked a bitter resentment among doctors of social, theology, as we know from correspondence between Erasmus and the Louvain theologian Martin Dorp. In a letter dated September 1514, Dorp testifies to the hostile reaction of the professional theologians to the Moriae Encomium and their apprehension of Erasmusí new project to edit the New Testament, of which word had already begun to circulate largely due to Erasmusí own public relations campaign. Erasmusí response to Dorp in epistle 337 recapitulates many of the Essay The Many themes of his life-long tirade against social deviance scholasticism. One of the key themes here is the stark contrast drawn between the recent style of theology exemplified by the scholastics, and the old style of theology associated with the Church Fathers, many of whose works Erasmus edited. The passage from old to new has hardly been an improvement.
The upstarts or recentiores are so engrossed in their factional disputes and the maya different from the aztec and inca civilizations?, dialectical quibbles that they do not have time to deviance read the Bible. Erasmus makes his case most succinctly when he asks, ďWhat does Aristotle have to do with Christ?Ē In effect, he accuses the terms schoolmen of idolatry in their substitution of norm, pagan for Christian authority. The letter to on USS Sinking Dorp, which was revised for publication with the Praise of Folly beginning with the Basel edition of 1516, offers a powerful and insidious repudiation of university theology and philosophy. Erasmus thus had little enthusiasm for the various philosophic orthodoxies prevailing among the ancients or the moderns. However, fairly late in social deviance, life, and only belatedly acknowledged by Essay on Marriage: criticism, he did turn in sympathy to one of the Hellenistic schools of social norm deviance, philosophy, namely Epicureanism. Erasmus never espoused Epicureanism as a comprehensive system of The Many, thought, and he could not endorse the central tenet of the mortality of the human soul. He was, however, attracted to deviance the Epicurean ideal of peace of mind through the retreat from worldly cares and the cultivation of a clear moral conscience. As Reinier Leushuis writes, Erasmusí very last familiar colloquy, The Epicurean , published in 1533, contains the startling claim that no one better deserves the name ďEpicureanĒ than the revered prince of Christian philosophy, Christ himself (CWE 40:1086; ASD I-3:731). Christ teaches his followers how to attain a state of complete tranquility, and freedom from the torments of a guilty conscience, that corresponds to the Epicurean ideal of ataraxia . This ideal, it is the maya from the aztec civilizations? worth noting, is not the same as Stoic apathy, which Erasmus carefully disassociates from social deviance Christianity in various places including the Ecclesiastes. He points out that apathy would defeat the purpose of the Christian preacher who tries to arouse the emotions of the justinian's construction was audience.
The Christian ought to combine compassion with a clear conscience in order to achieve tranquility. This understanding of Christianity has little in common with the sterner tenor of Protestant thought, and may explain why Martin Luther labeled Erasmus an Epicurean in the vulgar sense of an social, atheist or unbeliever. Finally, it may not be out of haywood, place here to point out that, through his mature, non-dogmatic embrace of Epicureanism, Erasmus shows some affinity for the late Renaissance prose writer Michel de Montaigne. Speech, for Erasmus, is not only a defining attribute of humanity but also a key to the relation between humanity and divinity, which was a central preoccupation of his thought. The Gospel of John declares that in the beginning was the logos , which Erasmus famously, or infamously, retranslated as sermo in preference to the reading of the Vulgate, verbum . Erasmus felt justified in changing the reading of the Vulgate, but only in the second edition of his New Testament published in deviance, 1519, because the received text of scripture is not divine. The words are human, or rather, a mediation between the and Purpose human and the divine. The Bible is social speech, and as such it must be read, interpreted, and understood according to the arts of speech.
Moreover, the arts of speech are the way were the maya different from civilizations? only means we have of approaching divinity. Speech brings man close to God. It is not entirely clear under what circumstances Erasmus first took an interest in biblical scholarship. His meeting with John Colet in England is known to have kindled his interest. Another factor, and perhaps an independent factor, was his discovery, in the summer of 1504 at the Praemonstratensian abbey of social deviance, Parc just outside the walls of Louvain, of the manuscript of Lorenzo Vallaís Annotations on Essay on Marriage: Opinions the New Testament , completed fifty years earlier. Erasmus prepared the editio princeps in Paris in 1505 with a prefatory epistle addressed to social deviance Christopher Fisher, papal protonotary and doctor of canon law. This preface in defense of Valla can be read as a sort of achievement, paradoxical encomium, or praise of invective, since Valla had a controversial reputation as a harsh critic and bitter polemicist. Erasmus compares Valla to Zoilus, a proverbial figure of social norm deviance, odious slander for his presumptuous critique of Homeric epic, as we are reminded in the Adages ; but here, in the preface he carries a positive connotation as a heroic censor. In his masterpiece on the elegance of the Latin language, Valla rescued literature from barbarity by administering the harsh medicine of criticism to the inveterate disease of scholastic Latin.
Erasmus published an epitome of Vallaís work in 1531 based on an abstract he had composed many years earlier in the monastery at Steyn. Valla had collated the Vulgate with the Greek text of the New Testament and emended the translation according to grammatical criteria, including the eliza fantomina criterion of elegance. Surely, Erasmus asks, translation, whether of sacred or profane texts, is the purview of grammar. A translator is not a prophet. The prophet requires the gift of the norm Holy Spirit, but the translator needs grammar and rhetoric, the arts of language. Definitions. In effect, since the word of God reaches us through human intermediaries using human language, theology cannot dispense with skill in language or linguarum peritia . This is the social deviance program of humanist theology.
The fervor with which the letter to Fisher defends Vallaís biblical philology suggests that Erasmus had already begun a similar enterprise himself. Indeed, the in what way were from civilizations? text that Erasmus edited in 1505 was the model and impulse for social norm deviance his own Annotations on the New Testament first published as part of the Novum Instrumentum in 1516. Jacques Chomarat has demonstrated convincingly how much Erasmus owed to Vallaís precedent and how little he acknowledged it, often expressing severe criticism of definitions, Vallaís choices, which can be taken as a sort of deviance, mimetic tribute to Valla, the modern Momus or god of criticism. Even the substitution of sermo for verbum , which embroiled Erasmus in such endless quarrels, and earned him a denunciation from the pulpit of eliza haywood fantomina, St. Paulís Cathedral in London, was anticipated by social Valla in his notes on the Gospel of John . Often the Erasmian Annotations revisits the themes first broached in the prefatory epistle to Fisher, including the Essay on USS Indianapolis notion that the Bible, like all human language, is immersed in social norm deviance, historical time. Chomarat draws our attention to Erasmusí annotation on Acts 10.38, where the apostle Peter is preaching to the Roman soldier Cornelius. Peter tells Cornelius that God anointed Jesus, which the Vulgate renders with a turn of phrase that elicits a long commentary from Erasmus, lengthened in successive editions. First of all, he observes, though the New Testament is written in Greek, itís not clear whether Peter was speaking Greek or Hebrew, that is to say the in what way were different from local dialect of Hebrew. If he spoke Greek, he spoke it as a foreign language inflected by his own vernacular, which accounts for stylistic irregularities.
After all, the apostles were only human, subject to error and deviance, ignorance like the rest of us. This got Erasmus in a lot of trouble. He rounds off his note with a disclaimer: ďIím not the oracle; you can take my opinion or leave it.Ē This pronouncement coincides with similar disclaimers throughout his biblical scholarship and his apologies. To his implacable foe Edward Lee, Erasmus insists that his opinions are not dogmas to be taken on faith but only ideas to be debated: excutienda propono non sequenda (ASD IX-4:46). And Engels' And Purpose Essay. In humanist theology, both the text and the exegete are fallible. Erasmusí main statement on human speech comes at the beginning of his Paraphrase on the Gospel of John , published in 1523 between the third and fourth editions of his Annotations . Speaking in the voice of the evangelist, he acknowledges that the nature of God surpasses human understanding, and social norm deviance, exceeds all of our powers of representation.
Consequently, it is better to believe in God than to try to understand him through human reason. Definitions. Christian philosophy is a kind of fideism, and not a speculative theology. But, in order to convey some understanding of things that are neither intelligible to social norm us nor explainable by us, we have to use names of things that are familiar to our senses, though there is nothing in eliza haywood fantomina, reality that is truly analogous to God. Therefore, just as the Bible calls that highest mind God, so it calls his only Son its speech. For the Son, though not identical to norm the Father, nevertheless resembles him through perfect similitude. In the and Engels' Essay same way, speech is the true mirror of the social mind. In this sense, Johnís logos is the paradigm of human speech. There is something miraculous about human speech which, arising from the haywood fantomina inner recesses of the mind and passing through the ears of the social listener, by a kind of Essay Indianapolis, occult energy transfers the soul of the speaker to the soul of the listener. This ďoccult energyĒ is not divine but nevertheless insinuates the social norm deviance proximity of the human and Essay Sinking, the divine. Christ is called the logos because God wanted to make himself known to us through him, so that we might be saved. Speech is the gateway to eternity.
The topos of the mirror of speech runs throughout Erasmusí work as a guiding thread of his ethical and religious thought. It is the figure of speech that animates his philosophy. We find the mirror in the Praise of Folly , in several adages, and in the Lingua. In the social norm deviance latter, it is associated with a saying of Socrates, ďSpeak that I may see you,Ē that reappears in Essay on USS Sinking, the Apophthegmata , whose prefatory epistle to William of Cleves cites Plutarchís claim that, more than any deeds, sayings are the true mirror of the mind. Erasmusí last work, the Ecclesiastes devotes a rather important development to social norm deviance the exalted role of speech as the true mirror and image of the soul. Sociological Definitions. In all these instances, we should recognize the social norm deviance expression not of a linguistic theory but rather of a moral imperative.
Our society and our salvation depend, according to Erasmusí favorite figure of speech, on the coincidence of our words and thoughts. Erasmus brings out this dimension of his theme best in the Lingua of 1525, which identifies the tongue as the source of our greatest benefits and ills. Eliza Fantomina. If speech is a mirror, he explains ruefully, it can certainly be a distorting mirror. Christ wanted to be called the logos and the truth, so that we would be ashamed of lying, but now even Christians have become so accustomed to lying that they donít even realize they are lying. Social Norm. This sad state of affairs is the occasion for a very solemn admonition: ďOnce lying becomes acceptable, then we can have no more trust, and without trust we lose all human societyĒ (CWE 29:316; ASD IV-1A:83). True speech is the foundation of society, and once this foundation is cracked, the social edifice collapses. Marx View Essay. At the end of the sixteenth century Michel de Montaigne will make the very same claim in social norm, the same prophetic tones, first in his essay ďOn liarsĒ and again in the essay ďOn giving the lie.Ē Both writers experienced their age as a crisis of truth and Essay, language. If we want to do justice to deviance the prolific and multifarious achievement of Desiderius Erasmus, we might say that he devoted his life to justinian's greatest was the ethics of speech. Since his death in 1536, Erasmus can hardly be said to social deviance have rested in peace.
His adversaries and detractors were unappeased by his earthly disappearance, and his partisans and disciples shared some of his enthusiasm for on USS Sinking polemic. One way to social assess Erasmusí legacy is to trace the publication history of his work, or what we might call the making of his canon. Erasmus himself was thinking about an edition of his complete works as early as 1523, as we know from Essay Opinions a letter he sent to Johann von Botzheim in which he drew up a preliminary catalogue of his works to be edited in nine separate tomes with a tenth tome pending. The first tome was to social deviance include everything that concerns literature and education including all his translations from Lucian, Euripides, and Libanius. Tome two was reserved for the adages, and tome three for his correspondence.
Volume four would be devoted to moral philosophy, including his various translations from Plutarchís Moralia , and his original works such as the Praise of Folly , the Education of a Christian Prince , and the Complaint of sociological, Peace . Volume five was to handle works of religious instruction such as the Enchiridion , his psalm commentaries, and all the prefaces to his New Testament. Eventually, his Ecclesiastes would be included in this group. Volume six would consist of the New Testament and the Annotations , while volume seven was for the Paraphrases . Social Norm Deviance. Volume eight was supposed, on a conservative estimate, to hold all the Apologies , or polemical writings. Volume nine was for the Letters of St. Jerome , as if Erasmus wrote them himself, and time permitting, he promised to write a commentary on Paulís Epistle to the Romans to fill volume 10. Erasmus revised his plan in a letter addressed to the Scottish historian Hector Boece in 1530, partly to accommodate all he had written in the intervening seven years. And Engels' Of Religion. As a practical measure, the works are now distributed in series, or ordines , rather than individual volumes, and a few other modifications are introduced.
The Paraphrases join the New Testament in ordo six to make room for all of Erasmusí translations of the Greek Fathers in ordo seven. The ninth series now includes several Latin Fathers in addition to Jerome, and the plans for a tenth volume have been shelved. When the posthumous Opera omnia finally issued, from the Froben press of Basel in the course of social deviance, 1538 to Essay on USS Sinking 1540, the publishers followed Erasmusí plan, but once again separated New Testament and Paraphrases into norm deviance orders six and seven, while the projected volume of Latin Fathers was canceled. The Apologies occupy the ninth and final order. This is substantially the on Marriage: The Many Opinions same organization adopted by the French Protestant refugee Jean Le Clerc in his ten volume edition of the deviance Opera omnia published in Leiden during the first decade of the haywood eighteenth century. This edition is known as LB from the Latin name for social norm the place of publication, Lugduni Batavorum. Le Clerc had to add a tenth volume to accommodate all the Apologies . As a further innovation, he even added an greatest construction achievement was, Index Expurgatorius , or repertory of all the norm passages in Erasmusí work that were marked out for expurgation by the Spanish and the Roman censors, keyed to the pagination of the Basel edition. From this index it appears that the construction achievement censors were particularly interested in the correspondence, and that only ordo eight, consisting of Latin translations of the Greek Fathers, escaped their vigilance.
Le Clercís index is an opportune reminder that during the century and deviance, a half intervening between the Basel edition and LB, the history of the reception of Erasmus is fantomina largely a history of censorship. The Counter-Reformation devoted a fair amount of deviance, its institutional effort to greatest achievement was the suppression of Erasmusí legacy in Italy. The first indices of prohibited books were municipal lists whose scope of enforcement was necessarily restricted. In 1555 the Congregation of the Index promulgated the first papal Index of Prohibited Books , which included several titles of Erasmus such as the Annotations on the New Testament , the Colloquies , the Praise of Folly , the Enchiridion , and some writings on prayer and on celibacy. This index was suspended shortly after its promulgation but it did deter Italian printers from publishing new editions of Erasmusí work. Then in 1559 the papacy promulgated a new index which inscribed Erasmus among the first class of heretics whose works were banned in social, entirety. This index in turn provoked a major incidence of book burning in the capital of European printing, Venice. Pope Pius IV issued a revised index in the wake of the Council of Trent, the Marx Tridentine Index of 1564 , which relaxed the comprehensive ban on Erasmusí work. However, it also included new provisions for enforcement that resulted in the confiscation and destruction of a considerable number of Erasmus editions in the stock of Italian booksellers. The Tridentine Index also included a new provision for the expurgation of those works by Erasmus that were not banned outright. This provision yielded, after some delay, one of the more important printing and publishing ventures of the Counter Reformation, namely the official expurgated edition of Erasmusí Adages.
This was commissioned by the Council of Trent, prepared by Paolo Manuzio, prefaced by his son Aldo, and published in Florence by the Giunti in 1575 bearing the imprimatur of Pope Gregory XIII. This was the censored edition of the Adages , purged of anything that could give offense to pious ears, and deviance, from which all traces of its author, Desiderius Erasmus, were so scrupulously removed that the work is often catalogued as the sociological Adages of Paolo Manuzio . Itís a blessing that readers beyond Italy had access to the unexpurgated edition of the social norm Adages , for if Montaigne had had to rely on Marx and Engels' and Purpose Paolo Manuzioís version, he never would have invented the essay form. Subsequent revisions of the Index of Prohibited Books gradually abandoned the norm deviance project of further expurgation. The index of Pope Clement VIII in 1596 turned over the task of expurgation to individual readers relying on their own conscience or someone elseís directions. Eventually the papacy resigned itself to the presence of some copies of Erasmusí literary and educational writings in private libraries in Italy.
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